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Thread: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

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    Default Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    Getting cold up here in Canada, circumstances don't permit neither me or this new target I seduced on POF to use either of our pads. I can't really think of any public places that are really safe, and I ain't rich so there will be no hotels or motels...

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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    So no "Motel, Hotel, Holiday Inn" huh? Pitbull would be disappointed in you.

    You don't have to be rich for certain motels or even a hostel. If you can't even afford that, it's gonna be tough man. No money no honey.

    All I can think of is borrow a friend's place for the nite. Volunteer to housesit or something.

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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    If you're both really into it, you can always go for the car. It helps if you have a bigger car or truck/van etc. I mean desperate times call for desperate measures. Just crank the heat!

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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    might have to bite the bullet and get a motel...ugh

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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    I've slept with a lot of girls in a car. Best not to bring it up until it's happening, but that's likely your best bet. I've also used a public family bathroom, but that's definitely more risky.
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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    Times like this it helps to know places. Need to scout out and get a plan even before u start gaming. Then if something is happening, u will have a go to place.

    As long as u make it seem like the emotions are just driving u guys and you didn't plan anything u can do it literally anywhere.

    I knew I might be able to make out with a girl so I had a nice lonely, indoor balcony as a go to. We hung out, I played naive when she would touch my arm or hold my hand. Little by little we got to my balcony place as if we were just going to see it cuz it was cool.

    It was dark and lonely so we escalated a bit and boom. Even women like quickies if the emotions seize them.
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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    Lockdown has given you excellent advice.

    You need to go out to look for ideal locations that are free or relatively inexpensive if your budget doesn't allow for a hotel.

    I recommend every guy should go out and look for great places to have sex around your city. When the need arises you have a big list of places to go.

    I am in Vancouver which has a metropolitan population of about 2.5 million people. Throughout the metro area I have scouted out great locations to take a girl.

    I have my own place but sometimes the time and distance to get there can make a girl change her mind. So get to the sex while she is hot for it.

    I am going to list some winter locations to take a girl if you don't have your own or her place and it's INEXPENSIVE or FREE

    Most cities will have these places.

    Movie theatre:

    Look for times when the theatre is underused such as a matinee or some on nights midweek. Get there early, bring a couple of extra jackets or sweaters. Go to the corner at the very back of row of the theatre. Place the clothing items in your row to make it look as if some of those seats in your row are taken. Especially the 2 seats closest to the aisle.

    University or college:

    Empty classrooms and lecture halls are easy to find and you don't have to be a student there. If the lecture hall is locked in the evening get to know the janitor.Tell him that you have to give a speech to the class so one night you may need to come and practice in the setting to get over your fear of public speaking. Give him a 6 pack of beer when you ask him. Get his number and you're set.

    Hotels:

    I am not talking about getting a room. Public bathrooms within the hotel. Look for a bathroom that has floor to ceiling doors for extra privacy. Lot's of higher end hotels have them. Walk around the hotel to see which public bathroom is rarely used.

    Hint the bathroom that's quiet is usually right where they have the conference rooms. I discovered that when I had a business conference that I attended and I was amazed at how private the location would be when there wasn't a conference going on.

    Shopping malls:

    The change room. Note how long you are left alone by the staff.... so when it comes time to using it for for sex find that change room where you were ignored for 20 minutes while you were trying on the clothes. Now who says that bad service can't be a good thing?

    Motel:

    Make some calls to a bunch of places and ask for the manager. Tell them that once in a while you work 20 hour days and you need a 2 hour nap during a lunch break. Can they give you a discounted rate? Some will say no that they don't do that and some managers will be happy to do that for you.

    Stairwell:

    Find an office building with a stairwell that's rarely used because everyone uses an elevator. Take the elevator to the highest floor, find the stairwell and then sit there for 30 minutes at lunch time or at the end of the business day. If it isn't used at that time it won't be used during the rest of the day either unless it's an emergency and in that case you'll hear the alarm.

    Community Centre: Here in Vancouver we can rent a meeting room for public meetups. Go and check out how private the room willl be if it has any windows etc. The doors won't lock so bring a door stopper and nobody can get in.

    Last time I rented on it was $10 for 2 hours. You have to think of a name for your group and they may ask the purpose of the meeting you do. Just make something up like XYZ City Football Fantasy League.

    Library:

    Most evenings the place is dead. Find a nice quiet spot and you won't be disturbed. I think most college/university guys have used this location to hookup.

    Gas Station bathroom: it should be your last choice because they aren't clean.

    Friends place: offer to clean his place in exchange for letting you use it. As a courtesy don't use his bed and definitely clean the place really well after you're done.

    If other guys can add to this list that would be great.

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    Default Re: Cant use my place, or hers...where to go?

    Wow Dave! Great exhaustive list!

    I will add to he careful of CAMERAS. Some hotels have cameras everywhere. Usually, it's the black domed kind which are easy to spot as they have to be out in the open. There are also ones the have like a half dome. Those kind can only see in one direction.

    And conference room hotel bathrooms are real great but some hotels lock these on weekends or if those rooms aren't in use.

    Also cleaning crews! Be careful they come around alot. I was surprised when I was with a girl at a hotel conference room floor, we were talking (it was a summer Saturday night) and the cleaning women passed by every ten minutes. No one except us was there! We were sitting at an empty banquet table in a semi dark hallway just taking a break from all the walking we did that day. It was in the open, not a private room. We had no garbage or anything that needed a janitor to monitor us. Maybe they were perverts because we were kinoing a lot (but innocent stuff like hand holding or massaging). Total buzzkill lol
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