Re: don't expect immediate results! dedicate yourself.
Originally Posted by meteora
Cuz I am a very handsome man. I have a girl at work with 2 BF's, has a house, no debt, like 5 grand saved, but she is only a 5 (we rate 6's as potential banging). She has a very pretty face but a unattractive body not fat by any means just not the kind of curves I like since she has too much hip and not enough up top. But this girl wants me though she hides it very well since she never flirts with me but asked me out to the Bar once. I said no because I thought she was hitting on me and thought guys and girls can't be friends (always romantic intent general rule), this was true since she never forgot I turned her down and asked me again to the Bar "If you are not such a punk come to the Bar with me." and now her friend is telling me she wants my hotness and to get her number and I could easily but I just am not attracted. I mean I am very flattered since she KNOWS I live with Mom at age 30 with a car I don't like (I'm technically a loser by the online hot girl description) but she still wants me despite my serious flaws even with her BF but wants me more than her BF since she is "hoping" we end up at the Bar together one wild night. Makes me feel pretty dang good.
But the 8 I was dating had too much hip too but she had a prettier face and a nicer rack than this 5 at work. Still she couldn't turn me on even though she was a MILF. I think I am just getting to the point in my Inner Game where I won't allow 7's and 8's into my life for whatever reason they don't turn me on. Not saying I wouldn't cuz I did a Bar Pull on a solid 7 and in the moment I would have done some SNL but too inexperienced to handle the cockblock and the cockblock killed it for me. So 7's can turn me on it's just they really have to rub me the right way. By the way I am not trying to bang a lot of women. Only trying to bang 9's and 10's but I'll settle for less if I get really turned on or validation hungry. Not trying to bang a lot of women more of bang through the facade of LTR's and then game other women while I am banging them to have small harems until I want an actual relationship. I've had sex it's largely overrated so I only want girls I really want since I have high standards. My league is 9's and 10's. Having a easy time with 9's (they give me instant validation on my openers something most girls don't) but 10's are giving me a little trouble lately. The thing of it is I have chemistry, serendipity, and intrigue with the 9's and 10's but the 7's and 8's are not enough challenge to me.
But that's just where I am now. Keep in mind my emotions are like a wave I easily can shift or change based on my current emotion or opinion. With that said I actually listen. So after listening to your advice maybe I will be more willing to hook up with a 7 or 8 who knows? Next year I'll leave the door open for that to happen just to get some notches under my belt. But for the record I could have only bagged this previous 8 at work who said "come see what my house is all about!" I know she wanted a hook up but I wasn't horny so I ignored the comment as she was inviting me over that day and tried to take it slow which backfired, could have bagged the 8 I was dating through the LTR facade, could have bagged the Cocktail Waitress who was a 9 but I wasn't horny so she asked what I was doing and I told her going to the Bar when I could have hooked up with her, then the 9 waiting by the door for me after I N-closed her and caught her following me around but I wasn't horny so I ignored her and walked to the Bartender I was friends with. So really only potentially 4 girls I could have bagged but again I need to refine my technique and next year we'll see no holds barred going for the 7's and 8's even though they tell me I deserve super hot chicks and tell me they are not good enough for me I guess I will just see it as a turn on to bag them. But not going for big numbers on F-closes but will do it maybe to get some experience.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.