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Thread: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

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    Default Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Notice, this is not to ignore or disregard non-minority PUAs.

    I'm African American college freshman and I attend a primarily White university.

    Who here is a minority or primarily is around HB of another race? (Ex. Black-White, Hispanic-Black, etc.) and has a girl ever said to you that doesn't date or like a guy of the opposite or minority race?


    And lastly, how has your pick up experience been overall as a minority?


    Also to white PUAs, any stories of you picking up a minority HB?



    I don't believe in using race as a crutch when picking up. I'm just trying to tap into the minority part and see a side of the PUA community I can further relate to. Just trying to cure my own curiosity


    This is my first post, happy to join the community and interacting with the masses,

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    honestly, being a minority shouldn't hinder your success, if anything it makes you more unique. I'm the whitest white boy you'll ever meet, and honestly I think that some racial stereotypes can help you in the dating realm. being white makes me more neutral when it comes to such stereotyping, but I know some white girls who only date black men cause they think they're better in bed. I also have some Asian guy friends who tell me they have trouble getting any girls who aren't Asian and even know some Asian girls who don't date Asian men. they seem to have the biggest racial disadvantage in dating.

    however race should not hinder your success with woman. yes most woman have racial preferences, but that doesn't stop them from dating strong confident men (regardless of race)

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Quote Originally Posted by Othello the Great View Post
    Notice, this is not to ignore or disregard non-minority PUAs.

    Who here is a minority or primarily is around HB of another race? (Ex. Black-White, Hispanic-Black, etc.) and has a girl ever said to you that doesn't date or like a guy of the opposite or minority race?
    Look, don't over think this. lets say some girl doesn't want to date you because you are black, it doesn't really matter. Some women don't date, shorter guys, skinny guys, tattooed guys, nerds whatever.

    I don't date fat chicks, chicks with kids, or average chicks. The bottom line is to focus on the girls that do like you.

    Quote Originally Posted by Othello the Great View Post
    And lastly, how has your pick up experience been overall as a minority?
    My experience has been effing awesome. You need to realize in the real* world of dating statistically speaking black men actually have an advantage. More women of different races said they find black men attractive, moreso than even Caucasians, the second highest rated men in the study. Latina's for example are reluctant to date white men. Black women are reluctant to date white men, but they of course will date black men.

    Asian women prefer white men over Asian men and very few would date black men. White women prefer white men, but they rate black men as their second choice and their isn't a close third.

    *These statistics do not apply to online dating. Online dating is far more race conscious than face to face meet ups.


    I don't believe in using race as a crutch when picking up. I'm just trying to tap into the minority part and see a side of the PUA community I can further relate to. Just trying to cure my own curiosity

    The last thing I'm going to address is the fact that based on what I've read Asian men have it the toughest. The reality though is the best PUA I've ever seen is a 5'6 Asian guy and he was a p*$$y magnet if I ever saw one. My point is, game trumps all.

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Lmao. It's her choice. You shouldn't fret just because a girl doesn't date you because you're black. Lots of girls told me that before. In the end you can't do anything about it once she has her mind made up. You got do remember this golden rule: NOT EVERY GIRL OR PERSON IS GOING TO LIKE YOU YOU. You should try not to let that get to you.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lmao. It's her choice. You shouldn't fret just because a girl doesn't date you because you're black. Lots of girls told me that before. In the end you can't do anything about it once she has her mind made up. You got do remember this golden rule: NOT EVERY GIRL OR PERSON IS GOING TO LIKE YOU YOU. You should try not to let that get to you.
    Ah that remind me, I've had lots of girls tell me they wouldn't date me for this reason or that reason and end up naked as a jay bird. sarge on.

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Thank you all for the positive replies. I can use the positive black stereotypes to my advantage lol.

    I can be over-analytical about simple things that I cannot control. Glad I got input from you guys.
    I now further recognize game is game regardless of skin tone or other physical traits.

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    I may be white, but I am also autistic, which you can sort of say puts me at a disadvantage because I have to try A LOT harder than a PUA without it. It doesn't just come down to skin color, as Suave Kino says. It comes down to many different aspects that somehow separates you from "the stereotypical norm" of society.

    As for my experiences with women of different color, about half of the girls I've been successful with were a different skin color. That group mainly consists of Hispanics and Native Americans.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    I'm a white guy in south Korea... it seems to be a dobule edged sword type of situation. I get a lot of interest from girls, but they seem to have a lot of stereotypical beliefs about europeans...

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    I'm an Asian PUA guy and I have dated and had "casual relationships" with many girls of other races. In fact, I exclusively date outside my race because I'm not attracted to Asian girls.

    What I find is that most girls don't really care what race you are as long as you appear to have confidence and are an interesting guy. Remember, most girls are very insecure about themselves, especially their own looks.

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    Default Re: Any MINORTY PUAs Please Stand UP!

    Black Sophomore here,

    Quote Originally Posted by Othello the Great View Post
    has a girl ever said to you that doesn't date or like a guy of the opposite or minority race?
    Just Kidding.

    Lol could you imagine...

    But tbh that hasn't happened to me yet.

    Quote Originally Posted by Othello the Great View Post
    And lastly, how has your pick up experience been overall as a minority?
    Sadly, I'm still an owner of a v-card, despite my stereotypically attractive physique (6"2, 230 lbs, Size 15 shoes , an attractive face, an athletic body) A lot of my sexual experience I think haven't been related to my race.
    All women are the same, but they just want different versions of the same thing.


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