I keep it short for you guys. I have known my school mates even before pick up but I believe they still remember me as old me.

My gf is very own minded and I started out with very little dominance with her and I also invested very little to the relationship. My classmates usually ally against me and my ideas in projects. I keep my frame and dont let myself go emotional though.

Is it possible to claim alpha dominance within my class mates and my gf? They have seen me being beta like sometimes but I have constantly claimed alpha victories. Will they see me as beta for the rest of my life or this new to-be alpha leader?