Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.
The single biggest changing point for me was when I challenged myself to kiss close every set (or get a hard rejection) before ejecting. What I found is that it was almost impossible to get completely shot down.
It's actually more difficult to get rejected to the point where they tell you to leave or leave themselves than it is to get a kiss close. Most guys will eject way before they should.
So along these lines, I'd challenge you to go get rejected--and I mean really rejected, like "fuck off" or she walks away--at least ten times trying to kiss close. Bet you can't get there in a reasonable amount of time.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."