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Thread: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

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    Default YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    Yesterday I choked 3 times on 3 girls I found extremely attractive (I attend college so thankfully I'll have another opportunity) Approach Anxiety kills me every time until I do one approach then I'm on fire.


    Today while joking about my chokes with my friends I opened a fortune cookie that stated, A romantic interest will occur soon or something along those lines. This perfectly placed fortune woke me up to the breaking point. To the point where I stop overanalyzing situations and I force myself out of my comfort zone.

    The pain of not approaching far outweighs any negative reaction I could possibly receive. Every day feels wasted. It's time to liberate myself!



    My question to you all is, What was that point in your pick up beginnings did you stop wasting opportunities? What was your Breaking Point?


    I'm very interested in any and all responses!

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    The breaking point was changing my habits from girl to girls. You will never understand the power of water unless you experience a flood.

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    Whitedragon that is just one epic quote. I'm gonna have to borrow it a few times.

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    The breaking point was changing my habits from girl to girls. You will never understand the power of water unless you experience a flood.
    Nice one, my friend!
    That's pretty "deep"... Ba-dum, PSSS! But definitely true.


    I discovered it was much easier when I quit thinking of it as "an approach" and instead, I just started being "sociable" & fun.




    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    What was that point in your pick up beginnings did you stop wasting opportunities? What was your Breaking Point?
    I've had many breaking points in my life.
    opportunities still get wasted at times, but I don't waste near as many as I used to.

    if you want to see how far I've come, compare these field reports.

    group A (beth)

    1 http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...llege-hb7.html
    to
    2. http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...ent-wrong.html
    to
    3. http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...tual-club.html
    and
    4. my findings from a frat party

    this was all in the fall of 2012. I was maybe an amateur who had read some books. and only had a few chicks under my belt. I wasn't very comfortable going out and socializing.

    spring of 2013 made my first f-close of 2013, (I didn't write a field report for it) but it was sloppy at best. (it took me 12 hours strait of gaming before I finally went for it)

    fast forward a year to august of 2013. I took a boot camp.

    5. http://www.puaforums.com/pickup-arti...mp-review.html

    that fall/winter I had my first LTR and started getting some real good practice in bed witch drove my confidence up some

    fast forward to last week (a month after I broke up with the LTR)

    6. http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...se-2014-a.html

    now I feel way more powerful with woman than I once did. I continue to grow as a man and as a pua.

    btw if you actually take the time to read these reports you will see just how far I have came to be where I'm at now.

    (the most notable difference can be seen between links 3, 5, and 6)

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    The single biggest changing point for me was when I challenged myself to kiss close every set (or get a hard rejection) before ejecting. What I found is that it was almost impossible to get completely shot down.

    It's actually more difficult to get rejected to the point where they tell you to leave or leave themselves than it is to get a kiss close. Most guys will eject way before they should.

    So along these lines, I'd challenge you to go get rejected--and I mean really rejected, like "fuck off" or she walks away--at least ten times trying to kiss close. Bet you can't get there in a reasonable amount of time.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: YOUR STORIES: The Breaking Point.

    My real breaking point, I suppose doesn't have to do with pickup at all. It is where I decided to break my old lifestyle and start doing better for myself. It's been a lot of hard work, but I realized I need more money and a steady income while working less to allow myself time to explore my other interests.

    My breaking point was realizing that I wanted more out of life and could accomplish my goals to get what I want out of life and put pickup and women in general on the backburner. Of course every now and then I go find a woman and get laid, but its something I put little to no effort into, but since then I have found that when I do have interactions with women I do much better and they don't out-wit me like they used to quite as often. My real accomplishment has been related to my inner-game.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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