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Thread: Fun With Eye Contact!

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    Default Fun With Eye Contact!

    I can't remember where I read or heard this (probably Nick Sparks), but it's sort of a "challenge" - you make eye contact with a person, count to three, look away (or approach) It's really fun because you can get a really good read on people and know who's approachable. Give it a shot

    I've been doing this because I tried cold approaches a while back and realized I suck and they're probably not my thing...at least until I practice more and develop my skills. I've been speaking too fast (in my opinion), moving around more than I'd like to, and running out of things to say way too early. Eye contact has never been an issue.

    Nick Sparks has some really great lectures on YouTube about "holding conversations like a man." He gets into body language and alpha posturing. I found that really helpful and I recommend you all check it out.
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    Default Re: Fun With Eye Contact!

    Best exercise for eye contact is holding it until the other person looks away. Much better than a 3 second rule. I ignore all advice that is followed with "like a man." Such weak shit. Women want a guy who's good with making them feel a certain way and screws them good. Doesn't matter if he's a "man." Complete sidenote though.
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    Default Re: Fun With Eye Contact!

    I can't stand Nick Sparks. Worst stuff on Youtube. Sorry, just my opinion.

    I take the train quite a bit as it's easier than driving a lot of the time. I live in a big city with some of the worst traffic problems in the world. Anyway.. Do you guys ever take a second to just look around at people's faces when you're out in public? I've started doing this more lately, just completely forgetting about myself for 30 seconds and observing everyone else. I've noticed that (and I'm sure this isn't news to most of you) especially in guys, most people look miserable and very unapproachable, sometimes even nervous.

    I used to be that way in public too when I was younger. I had slight social anxiety etc.. I still get kinda shy or nervous around large groups of people I don't know. The difference now when I feel that way is that I understand it more and why it happens, and it usually doesn't last very long because of that.

    So anyways.. The way this relates to the eye contact thing is when I'm on the train or the bus etc and notice an attractive woman, I make a point of not letting myself look nervous or miserable like everyone else. I stand up straight, tilt my head up a little and find a bit more presence and/or think of something that makes me laugh. I almost find when I do that I end up with the tiniest little smirk on my face, which is so much better than frowning and looking uncomfortable!

    Anytime I'm in that Mindset and make eye contact with a girl, she holds eye contact for longer, and a lot of the time will even shoot me a nice smile.. Just recently this has even resulted in a couple conversations that led to phone numbers.

    Simply by giving off a super positive vibe and making good eye contact that isn't creepy.

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    Default Re: Fun With Eye Contact!

    I definitely hold until the girl looks away. I got a girls number without speaking a word to her in a coffee shop a while ago by doing this.

    She was walking out and I was sitting down. I held eye contact while she literally did a double-take as she walked by.

    Two minutes later she comes back and hands me her number on a piece of paper.

    That being said, I don't think there is anything more powerful than eye contact.


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