Re: What Are Your Opinions on Who Pays?
I assume that your father didn't grow up in post-feminism North America?
Originally Posted by drgnsfire12
Guess what? My father always told me to work hard, but I've got to where I am by working smart. My father is a baby boomer who group up with unions, where seniority, loyalty, and hard work were rewarded. I'm part of Generation Y, which tends to reward merit and productivity. Point being, just because it worked for you father doesn't mean it will work for you.
In mid 20th century Italy, marriage was the height of a woman's life story. Would most women you see in the US today say the same thing?
For the love of God people, if what your father taught you was working, you wouldn't be here in the first place.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."