So what I've recently noticed, is that at some point in conversation, usually through text, the relationship vs. fwb question/discussion comes up. I wouldn't say I'm against the idea of committed, monogamous relationships, but I am definitely not for them. An example of the "relationship vs. fwb" question which I was asked by a girl recently: "Would you say after sex cuddles are a good substitute for an emotional connection?" To which I replied something along the lines of, "Unless you're getting married, relationships usually end in a bad breakup. So why not have a really great friendship with no limitations and avoid the emotions at the end?." That, in a nutshell, is what I say when this question comes up. Somehow, I always manage to get these girls in bed, even if they are only interested in having a relationship with me and they know I don't want one. This happens with about 90% of the women that I have met.

So, what I am asking is, what has your experience been as far as describing your agenda/interests/motivation or whatever you want to call it when the "relationship vs. fwb" question comes up. I need to know if this is happening because I'm so irresistible or if it is a common trait or occurrence that some women exhibit when they have enough attraction and interest towards someone.

Thanks guys, you're always a help.