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Thread: The difference between Love and Attraction

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    Lightbulb The difference between Love and Attraction

    Soooo I've been looking online and haven't found a solid answer with scientific answers on this question, but what are you thoughts on the difference between Love and Attraction?

    My personal opinion is that Attraction is measurable and necessary in maintaining any relationship. Love... to me seems much more broad than Attraction... after looking online for a bit i found this link http://www.mcmanweb.com/love_lust.html which suggests that you need 3 things for Love to exist... Lust, Attraction & Attachment...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: The difference between Love and Attraction

    Well...I would agree.

    Sustainable attraction, lust and attachment.

    Do you like him/her as a person?

    Do you like being near/with them?

    Does he/she turn you on sexualy?

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    Default Re: The difference between Love and Attraction

    "Attraction" is the initial trigger that causes you to gain interest in someone / curiosity.

    "LOVE" is a conscious choice we make, when we truly care for someone. Love isn't just a feeling, it's a promise.

    Feelings can waiver back & forth occasionally depending on our moods. But when you LOVE someone, you don't get rid of them just because you're mad, upset, or disappointed with them.

    An example is like a "parent/child relationship".
    Just because parents might get frustrated & upset with their kids, it doesn't mean they stop loving them. (Hence, love being more than just feelings).

    Love IS a strong emotional connection, but with stronger bonds than most people realize.



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