I am a new member. I'm a British man living in Chile. I'm heavily in the friend zone with a woman and need to change her perception of me. Following the Scrambler methodology by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge, I am doing this by breaking patterns. One characteristic of mine is that I am quite reserved with physical contact. Many people have commented on this and I'm quite jumpy when people touch me. I'm normally very polite and respectful, especially with women (typical Brit), which has, of course, got me nowhere.
I had an idea of spanking this girl really hard on the arse at a moment when she isn't expecting it. It would really surprise her, it's definitely flirtatious and would really shake her up momentarily. Then I would just act like it was nothing. (I'm quite good at acting nonchalant when others around are excited or stressed). Is this a good idea or is it a bit too much, or even a bit pervy? Your thoughts would be most appreciated. Thanks