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    noddyomg is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Spanking and breaking patterns

    I am a new member. I'm a British man living in Chile. I'm heavily in the friend zone with a woman and need to change her perception of me. Following the Scrambler methodology by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge, I am doing this by breaking patterns. One characteristic of mine is that I am quite reserved with physical contact. Many people have commented on this and I'm quite jumpy when people touch me. I'm normally very polite and respectful, especially with women (typical Brit), which has, of course, got me nowhere.

    I had an idea of spanking this girl really hard on the arse at a moment when she isn't expecting it. It would really surprise her, it's definitely flirtatious and would really shake her up momentarily. Then I would just act like it was nothing. (I'm quite good at acting nonchalant when others around are excited or stressed). Is this a good idea or is it a bit too much, or even a bit pervy? Your thoughts would be most appreciated. Thanks

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    Default Re: Spanking and breaking patterns

    Start with other light touch first.
    (Hands, arms, small of her back, etc)

    Going straight for the butt smack without her being used to your touch can have dire consequences.

    Unless... you're confident as hell!
    But then again, if you're confident, you should have already been touching her to begin with.

    Women like being touched... they don't however, like being "groped". Especially if the attraction & comfort level hasn't been established yet.

    If you start out with being fun & playful, you might get away with the "spanking" early on... but if you're not experienced in dealing with women, I would advise against that.


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    Default Re: Spanking and breaking patterns

    Ok, thanks a lot for your advice

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    Default Re: Spanking and breaking patterns

    Yeah, I'd advise against that as well. I would advise you start slow with hands, arms and back. Going straight for the finish line before the starting line can have serious consequences and potentially give her the wrong impression. Or basically what T-Mal said.

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    Default Re: Spanking and breaking patterns

    I think once you've been able to make her smile, laugh and touch her hand shoulder and back id say go for it jokingly. If you're in the club that might be cool to do but in just regular day game maybe not so much right away.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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