I'm going to start off by telling you guys that this isn't about myself but a friend of mine I'm trying to help out. You guys might find a lot of humor out of this as I do when thinking about it at times. Hes got this girl hes been with for a couple years that hes been trying to get away from but can't for several reasons, mostly she forces him (and I literally mean forces). She's super obsessive and manipulative and all that shit and pretty much stalks the dude.
First time I met this chick it was after my friend and I just got done playing pool at the bar and we come outside and shes waiting for him. We got in his truck and all of a sudden theres some chick standing outside of his door asking whats up, first thing that came to my mind was this was a prostitute encounter until he told her "your scaring my friend" and eventually he got her to leave but couldn't go anywhere without seeing her car a block away so he dropped me off a couple blocks from my house so she didn't know where I lived.
Now here's where it gets nasty. She accuses my buddy of cheating on her with girls at the place we used to work and then she messages them all on Facebook threatening them and all that and eventually makes him lose his job. Now thats where he first told me hes trying to leave and that the reason hes still with her is because he crashed her car a couple months back and has to get it fixed so she can't sue him (not sure if thats totally true but w/e). Here she has something over his head.
This is the best part, a couple weeks ago he actually tried to leave her and she pulled a gun on him saying he can't leave, and so he did what most people in fear of their life without a place to run would do and fought her to get the gun out. This ended with HIM getting charged with domestic and (because he is a felon, got caught with pot down by the border of US/Mexico) for having firearms in the house (which were hers, not his). Now he has to play kiss ass with her to get out of the domestic so she has another thing over his head. He told me this after I ran into him by chance at the YMCA and we kept contact via Facebook because my phone was off. On Facebook we had conversations about him needing to leave her and all that. Now this is where it really gets good. She gets on his Facebook and threatens me with paragraphs of messages saying shes going to cancel his gym membership so he can't come kick it with me and because he always says things when introducing me to people about being an MMA fighter she started sending physical threats and how I'm a pussy and such (obviously trying to provoke a reaction she didn't get out of me).
I think you guys see the craziness of this and get the picture. I'm trying to help him get as cleanly out of this as possible and want to know what I can do to help him legally as I'm only 18 and haven't had to deal with legal matters like this up to this point in my life. I'm thinking of using the messages she sent me on his Facebook as a way to profile her as a psychopath and that she more than likely instigated the situation. Also, if she does happen to show up at the gym while were working out, I'll just say something to her about her being crazy and if she attacks me for it it will be on camera that shes assaulting me (showing her as a violent person). Some thoughts and opinions would be very helpful at this point.