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    Default Hanging my hat for a while...

    Well that awesome date I had turned into us hanging out all weekend and hanging out last night. I been sleeping at her house and just recently she said she wants me to move in. We need to talk about it first but it feels pretty awesome when a million guys are trying to get with her and I am the one she wants to move in. We'll see what happens since she probably doesn't know what she wants.

    But either way like I said I am getting better and now she likely wants to keep me under wraps which I am fine with. And all I did was ignore her a lot. So yeah I let her invite me over and all that. In the end her friends that met me won't talk to her because they are jealous she has me.
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    It's nice to see things are going well for you so far. If you want this to be a serious relationship, I would advise taking things slow let things go at their own pace.

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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Well I dunno I feel like I am moving at a snail's pace. She let some guy make out with her in front of me and then tells us she is dating him. We have been hanging out all day but she is very unreceptive to my passes and not coming on to me anymore. So I feel like this is the end so whatevs. Sad it was such a waste and I spent so much money on us hanging out. So I give up. Gonna try to ditch her tonight. Like not my style I don't need a chick is undecided about life and wants to date a million guys.
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    LOL.

    Dude....wtf...you're the biggest drama queen on here. You need to get some consistency in your life man. I know you're trying hard, and I commend you for everything you've done, but seriously, make a plan and stick to it.

    Your first and second post are hardly 24 hours apart and they are complete opposite directions. One minute you say you're gaming hard, and the next minute you're moving in with a girl? You need to get your shit under control.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Yeah good advice well I am definitely not planning on moving in with her now. She ain't my girl so game on.
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    LOL.

    Dude....wtf...you're the biggest drama queen on here. You need to get some consistency in your life man. I know you're trying hard, and I commend you for everything you've done, but seriously, make a plan and stick to it.

    Your first and second post are hardly 24 hours apart and they are complete opposite directions. One minute you say you're gaming hard, and the next minute you're moving in with a girl? You need to get your shit under control.
    You make some valid points and I need to get my head on strait. I could have slept with her friend last night but got into a funk. So I decided to contact her other friend who she told me to stay away from.

    I figure if she is not going to stay away from that other guy then neither will I stay away from her friends. It is as I figured her friend threw it all out there that we might hookup at this concert me and my GF were supposed to go to together. I tried to break up with her but she thinks she is still with me so I will use it as leverage for the moment. I am the bomb at going out but I am tied up with so many chicks right now.
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    It's not about screwing her friend and getting revenge. It's about being a real man. And right now, you're not being one. You're acting immaturely, and shit like this will continue to happen to you until you decide to grow up. My advice, just put this literally all behind you. Delete her and all of her friends from any contacts you have and meet new people. Look at the shit she did to you and look how shitty it made you feel. Do you really want that to continue? Just turn your back on all of it. It's your life, choose wisely who you really want to let in. You've gotten this far and you've proven to yourself that you can do this. You've hit a bump. That's ok. Now you can see them before ever reaching them. You can do this, dawg!

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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Quote Originally Posted by AlexandreUU View Post
    It's not about screwing her friend and getting revenge. It's about being a real man. And right now, you're not being one. You're acting immaturely, and shit like this will continue to happen to you until you decide to grow up. My advice, just put this literally all behind you. Delete her and all of her friends from any contacts you have and meet new people. Look at the shit she did to you and look how shitty it made you feel. Do you really want that to continue? Just turn your back on all of it. It's your life, choose wisely who you really want to let in. You've gotten this far and you've proven to yourself that you can do this. You've hit a bump. That's ok. Now you can see them before ever reaching them. You can do this, dawg!
    Artandale already said I should go out with her friend and I agree. I told her friend what happened and she was there to comfort me which felt pretty dang good. Plus my GF already invited another girl so we won't be alone all night but I will be alone with her friend if we go. I agree I am not being a man only to the extent of her friend offering me to stay the night and my GF said it was okay so I could have hooked up with her but I stuck around like a little bish and then yelled at her for ignoring me all day.

    So the way I figure she only deserves a taste of her own medicine and to think she calls me her BF. I put up with her crap all day then had a little fit but when she finds out me and her friend are going I imagine she is going to be blowing up both our phones and trying to hunt us down like crazy. She is going to be flaming pissed and will probably break up with me but I bet you her reaction will be far worse then mine. We are still talking but screw it I am going with her friend who is nice to me.
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Wish I could change the title to Not hanging my hat for a while but whatevs. I threw it all out there in a simple post today about the past being in the past and she liked the status so it seems like we are still together. But her friend is really into me so I am undecided again but she thinks she has a ticket so since her friend might flake I am not telling her till the day of when I pick her friend up to put myself in the best position where I can go with either one. No reason to burn both bridges now by letting the cat out of the bag early.

    If I do pick her friend up she might get screwed if it is a sold out show and I would be a real jerk but I tried being nice to her and all I get is rocks for roses. And right as I write this she is back to texting me again...oh women what will I ever do?
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    Default Re: Hanging my hat for a while...

    Her friend is ignoring me so looks like I am stuck with my GF
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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