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    Default Dealing with internal metamorphis

    I have been simultaneously delighted, angry and sad since discovering PUA. It shows me the missing puzzle piece that affects me all the way back to the beginning and I become very angry at myself for at all the missed opportunities, failed attempts, self-doubt, etc. There have been some major changes throughout my life, but this is core.

    My discovery is catalyzed by a botched PU from a HB8 who threw herself at me. When I read the forums, I hit a trigger sentences or phrases that stuns me for the rest of the day. I see glimpses of how it could have been versus how I handled it. As alphas, we're not supposed to feel negativity, but what I feel is also metamorphic - a mirror that shows me who I should be contrasted with who I am. My response is initially dramatic, but I eventually calm down because my beta habits must be conquered to become a PUA and better man in general.

    I'm interested in knowing how others deal with these internal changes.

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    Default Re: Dealing with internal metamorphis

    You have to learn from your mistakes & keep progressing forward.

    It takes a few times of "Crashing & burning". That's totally normal.
    Don't worry about what WAS... focus on what IS & what WILL BE.

    It's all about gaining experience & continuing your own personal growth.
    Don't think of it as learning PUA... look at it for what it really is... Self Improvement.


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    Default Re: Dealing with internal metamorphis

    I had a recent experience since first discovering PUA very similar to yours Royal.

    Don't sweat it though, we are here to become the best we can be and gotta hit those first initial steps.
    Failure is never really failure until ya either give up or don't take anything away from something ( - to + ).
    I'm in a shhhhty situation myself but I'm gonna keep making the most of the opportunity until my class is done and I'm free from the chick.
    Play on, playa!
    "Fidelio"


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