Re: RB - So I've finally been friend zoned
Farking epic brah! I agree 1 million percent. I had exactly the same situation. We all know about my FWB in my current rotation but basically I picked her up at the Club a couple months back and have been dating ever since. The first night we were hanging out she came in for a kiss and I rejected her which caused her to go cold and later resist my advances to fool around. Recently she was flirting with other guys. But I said screw them and on another hang out with a previous dude she was fawning over she completely phased out cuz I was hugging all over her and grabbing her all night which is not what I am used to doing. Due to this her interest level is going back up and I am starting to tease her about sexual innuendos since I figure she doesn't sleep with me when we are alone so I better start talking about it. Again great advice!!
Originally Posted by DirectIsBest
On that note I agree it was my frame that caused her to go cold and she was warming up to the idea of sleeping together but it was my own qualification telling me I didn't want her cause she wasn't my type aka a 10. Either way she is warming up to me again cuz I am warming up to her but I willknow how to better play it next time. I am really excited to meet someone new but she just won't go away no matter what I do so I figure why not start joking about sex and see what happens...
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