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    Default Thoughts on how masturbating affect us

    Sometime ago I read a study about masturbation and how it affect us, mainly our ability and emotional disposition to talk with other people (guys, girls, dogs, rats, whatever).
    The study said that, when masturbation becomes an habit, we tend to Isolate ourselves more, because of testosterone.

    With that in mind, I thought "ok, let's test this". So I started flipflapping just for the sake of self-experiment and self-verification.

    I became less happy, more isolated, more introverted... man, I even felt way less keen to talk with my female friends. It kinda changed me. So I thought: "I have a girlfriend and masturbation does this to me. Imagine what it does to a guy with no gf.".

    At this point, I completely stopped it, and my old self came back. Extroverted, sympathetic, flirty, the kind of guy who dances and sings flamenco in his car and with his friends.


    So, my point is: masturbation may be seen as a refuge for some, especially those who are single and, because of that, they masturbate to reach an orgasm, while they can't get any girl. However, it will only hinder your ability to, in fact, flirt with other girls. It will increase your social awkwardness, Approach Anxiety, it's kind of a never ending black hole of chaos and singleness. Oh, moreover, when you do in fact approach a girl, you'll be more prone to "damn, I gotta get her, I wanna rip her pants and go full gas mode on", and you forget that you have to be fun and get, in return, fun.

    Hope that this helps and makes someone else laugh!

    Best regards guys!

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    Default Re: Thoughts on how masturbating affect us

    I agree.

    I used to be an introverted guy. I'm so shy and scared of talking to any people including friends. I can't even answer the phone! I observed what is happening. The reason that is happening is because I jack off in my room, everyday, makes me feel so weak and unwanted. Then I started to stop jacking my bolt, and guess what?? I was motivated to go out and have fun, meet new people, compliment random citizens, and improve my overall character. I improved!

    I'm not saying this that it applies to everyone, but based on experience, not masturbating gave me confidence and it boost my self esteem.

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    Default Re: Thoughts on how masturbating affect us

    It also weakens your sperm. Not something you want to do if you plan on having children some day.

    I was pretty socially isolated when I learned there was a bodily function after the number two. It is usually a substitute to actual companionship.

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    Default Re: Thoughts on how masturbating affect us

    You are spot on. I saw that study posted and know other dudes that jerk off so much it made them Isolate themselves to the point of getting angry all the time for nothing....then being depressed. they wouldn't want to do anything but sleep-work-eat-watch porn ... I know many guys that get Addicted to porn. It's the same thing as being addicted to cocaine. You get caught up in the rush.


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