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    Default The Struggle is real: Break up gone bad

    So I was sitting there thinking I am getting really good at this and I admit it is getting harder and harder to get rid of chicks and I am getting farther and farther.

    Funny thing is I am just getting started. Granted we ALL know I can't game 10's worth crap still I have only approached 12 of them so just like everything else practice makes perfect.

    Now I can't even get rid of them fast enough. Chicks I broke up with months ago still in love with me trying to get at me at work. Yes I stopped gaming at work since I got promoted to manager duties I got so good everyone knew the next hot chick was gonna be all over me. So I got pulled into the office again and again and again till finally they said okay man you gotta stop. Am I that good lol?

    But I was tearing up my game in-field so I made getting numbers getting dates at work look like child's play and then break up with one for the next one.

    I told you guys year over year my results are getting better this year was stellar. Last year I dumped a HB8 Cougar this year I "tried" to dump an HB9 I had been seeing for 3 months my "longest" relationship thanks to Pick Up and what happens??? She went ape farking bat girl crazy on me. Like never seen anyone that obsessed. I had dumped so many chicks I knew the "pissed" off broken hearted vibe was a trying to win me back last ditch effort. This save attempt of pissed-off-ness is different than a pissed-off-ness of some chick you JUST started talking to and never been on a date with. That pissed off type of vibe is a go away vibe this pissed off ness about getting dumped is a I want you back type of vibe.

    So I took your guys advice and my work colleagues were telling me to dump her too and dumped her but quietly. I knew it might be a sh!t storm so I didn't block her number in case she needed closure and dumped her.

    Do me a favor feel free to point me in the right direction but let me make myself abundantly clear I am not taking relationship advice about dumping someone from anyone EVER again. I am just talking about dumping. Everything else I am cool with as far as how to get a chick, Approach Anxiety, gaming 10's, dating, etc. But to save myself any future headaches the only person who decides who I am gonna dump is ME. That was not worth it!! This girl was crushed, broken, torn. I have been mending the tattered pieces for days and she is just barely starting to come around. She is not the same. She doesn't smile anymore she doesn't laugh she barely talks but it is always about the fight. She was a very very happy person before but when I said be happy we don't have to see each other anymore and find someone else she said oh I am so farking happy. I think I heard her heart break and things have not been right since but she is slowly healing. I am her only antidote right now. I am doing perfectly fine I mean I wanted this and happy either way but this girl is NOT OKAY. I mean I don't know if she ever be the same she may very well be a new girl that's all I know right now. I have been working on her for a week and she is still in pieces. She said she was strong before this happened?? What happened to that?

    It's my life and everybody is trying to control me just stop.

    Basically she turned into a nut craving psychopath who got into my FB feed while blocked through a friend's login likely.

    She was blowing up all day non stop texting giving me feedback on each new FB status update and I was like WTF you are blocked.

    I was honest and told her I was tired of her flirting with every guy on the planet in front of my face which pissed me off. I said you act like a dang nun and we never slept together I deserve to get out. You have a million dudes trying to hit it why has your world suddenly ended when I am gone? I told her chill the heck out this is not the end of the world just the end of us.

    But NO!! She could not let it go!! Literally not stopping the texting just over and over battling me. I was like dang why didn't I get this kind of attention before. I literally told her 100 times "it's over" the sun has set, the ship has set sail I said "we broke up" on FB and she texts me oh that's hilarious you psycho we never dated (B.S.) she said it to get back the power but I never bought into that frame. I said why are you stalking my FB and she said cuz you're something special grow the fark up. Like just tearing into me and I didn't cuss at her once just calm like go the hell away.

    Well this went on for hours so I was like dang will this ever end did I crush this girl's entire world? Flirting with a million dude's and the PUA gets the 3rd degree? I was tempted to say go bug one of your 10 BF's but I bit my tongue a bit.

    So I said she can see my FB again since she was stalking me anyway I saw my FB block as a break up attempt a poorly hatched plan and thought maybe by making her hate me know she would lose patience and give up??

    So I said you are unblocked thinking she would somehow get bored and give up. This poor girl man I must have really done a number on her and jacked her head up good.

    She posted 12 days strait on FB and since the break up stopped posting positive stories and thoughts like she used. It was like she was completely torn and even her trip to some concert in another state didn't put her into a better headspace she was still flaming pissed and this girl has been a Princess for 3 months strait and never acted this crazy before.

    So I did what any man should do and just poured as much love and patience into her as I can. Saying the most outlandish compliments and overly dramatic statements I could possibly think of. And I thought it worked cuz she stopped responding.

    Then today she texted me. Yep now she says she is confused. Lol well take a number honey because two months ago I told you the same thing and you didn't give a sh!t now it is me not giving a sh!t and you begging. But I am tired of fighting so she can have me since I ripped this girls world apart simply by saying good bye you ain't good enough for me. She acted like the hello I am not. After this huge debacle I feel like myself again she knows I can't be farked with and now I can say or do whatever the hell I want and get away with it.

    I used to be confined with her but now that I got back some power I think I played her pretty good cuz she is crazy about me and I told her I am crazy about her. But it's all fabrication to make her happy to make her forget. I cannot break up with a chick long term like this again so I will remember next time 3 months is too much investment and try to hit it sooner so the break up is easier.

    This is my 2nd time trying to break up with her so right now she is still butthurt and keeps bringing it up and I keep pouring love like never before like I am sorry muffin and she is just like oh now I am confused lol. Well she deserved it! I thought she didn't give a sh!t about me but she can't live without me. I have literally been throwing out the biggest overblown Romantic crap. Calling her muffin, telling her I am crazy about her, how I miss her more everyday, how I miss her more than anything and never talked this strong before but dang it is like it just bounces right off and now it is slowly getting in. She is getting feelings for me again I just know it.

    In other news she knows I am a PUA but doesn't do anything about it due to our open relationship policy but as you can see it causes a lot of jealousy between us. In other words I still can't get a 10 so I took her back to try and get laid again by a 9. Ohh well maybe next year.
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    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: The Struggle is real: Break up gone bad

    Wow man, wat can i say but she sounds like a crazy b!
    You gotta knkw what ur getting into, if shes playing the jelalousy card u gotta get out, and then she acts crazy about u i dont get it.
    Let me tell u tho 3 months isnt long, but if u dont know by then if somethin real is coming out of it then u gotta cut it out.
    Maybe u shouldve known shes a little nuts, or maybe shes on meth? Lol sorry but it almost sounds like that.
    But remember after the games are played and u start a connection, girls are sensitive about u n dramatic when they start to need u. And one that seems like her will not be a good fit. I think u can Do better dude, just be cautious who u get with from here on.
    Pickup is a game, but love isnt my man.
    Hope it calms down for ya and best of luck.

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    Default Re: The Struggle is real: Break up gone bad

    I have trouble believing you that she's that attached to you, but you've never had sex.

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    Default Re: The Struggle is real: Break up gone bad

    Jack you make it seem like you have no control over how dramatic everything is but its all because of the choices you make. If you really were done with something you'd stop communicating all together.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: The Struggle is real: Break up gone bad

    Ignore her, she'll go away eventually as she'll find better things to do. Don't respond to texts and FB messages. Taking a break up with dignity and grace apparently flies over her head from what you say.


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