Well, I think i have figured some stuff out. I think being a leader of men is like when you are dominant with men. i think all you have to do is prove to the woman somehow that you are dominant with some men. Online i said "i am pretty dominant sometimes. I boss around some of my friends all the time" and that seemed like enough to get her attraction. The woman was not able to see me so that might have made it easier. Mystery method is so legit about the m3 model or steps to take with attraction. it can be found online. turns out female to male attraction is only one of the steps toward getting women to be seduced
Maybe I said that wrong. Maybe if a man is able to tell guys what to do and they respect him then that is attractive.
I think this answers my question pretty well. http://youtu.be/mkdF1RKj8P8
I think the leader of men attraction switch is when you have guys that are friendly with you and will help you out if you ever need it because you are important to them. Stuff like that.
Hey guys, I just read something in something called Love Systems and it says that there are alpha males of a group and not to try to be an alpha male of the group and that the best scenario is to be in the leadership circle and one of the alpha males. This goes along with what I thought before that there is not an alpha male of groups but there are alpha MALES of groups and there are leadership circles.
Hey there guys, never mind about Mystery method theory and stuff, I think that applies to if someone wants to be an alpha male and I don't think I am going to put that on my list of priorities right now. Anyway, I was thinking and read about status in a book called Without Embarasment and it said that men are higher status to other men if the more socioeconomic status they have and then this translates to confidence with women. I think some of this might be true. When I have had status with guys that has given me confidence around women. I think status with men can be from if you are able to help out other men. Maybe men get status from other men and then women judge the results which is confidence and things like that. Does this seem right guys? There is more I will ask about later but I don't feel like putting it on here right now. Sorry about my other randomness guys.