Re: A little sensitive topic- PUA and Law
You both bring up some good points. Regardless, and as Mystik points out, you can't be playing offensive the whole time. Sometimes, especially in situations like that, it's good to play aggressive defense, just because it reduces the risk of her crying foul play.
Another thing I want to bring up is the fact we're PUAs. Because we do what we do, we're already under greater scrutiny and misconceptions. In a court of law, nobody is going to believe that a PUA was in the art for "improving themselves" or "becoming a better man". They're going to look at you and see a horn dog looking for ways to increase his chances of farking someone hotter than they are. Thus, in order to protect ourselves from that situation, we have a higher standard of care we must exhibit towards women. We must always guarantee that they are comfortable with doing something, and we must always guarantee that their "yes" is a sure and positive confirmation that they are alright with doing what you want to do.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X