I'm just curious if this has happened to any of you guys before. For the past 8 months, I've been constantly working on myself: working out 3-5 times/week, very focused on my career, meditation 20 minutes/day, reading books, going out twice a week, etc. I have noticed that while I have become very free from outcome, goal-oriented, and high value, I also have become less attracted to girls lately. For example today, I met a cute girl while working an event booth for the All-Star game in my city and I could tell she was into me. (qualifying herself by agreeing with all of my interests and asking me tons of questions) My old self a year ago would have gotten her number and time-bridged a set date for tomorrow. But instead, I felt that she wasn't as attractive and I could get an overall better girl than her.
How have you guys dealt with this?