Long time no see
I got asked for some advice from a brotege and I'd like your-all's input on the situation.
Guy in a LTR (co-habiting with his girl / both in college) notices the sexual tension has flatlined. The catch is she is, because of bad experiences in her past, gets turned off by traditional innuendo's, and more direct sexual advances in non-sexual contexts - which would ordinarily be the solution. Also she has enough entry-level sales training to spot basic NLP and has similar aversion to it.
<Assuming that replacement/escape is the less desirable option than having the skill to control the situation>
My advice has been to try a week or two of tension-building with these ideas:
Get her chasing by a combination of Freeze Out + cat string of attention and praise in a push/pull heavy way.
Get her aroused by dropping lower level NLP (triple entendres, etc) and erring on the side of gender polarization when possible.
Add in a few novel experiences (e.g. take a spontaneous trip or explore sexually) to trigger a change
If that doesn't work after a week or two, I'm suggesting him to have a re-DTR talk which will probably prompt her to resolve her mental hang-ups.
Any thoughts? Places to improve?