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    PrinceJ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Social proofing

    I had previously gamed a girl I liked some time ago and at the time she had giving me lots of IOIs but this was two months ago before I found the community. She invited me to her 21st birthday party a month in advance, but made no strides in trying to start talking again, which I took as an IOD but no big deal.
    I go to the pregame with two of my buddies(not wings). Its at her place and she has a few friends over but more people would come. I walk in, introduce myself to the people I know first then to the rest of the crowd. I was demonstrating my AMOG (smiling and good posture) to everyone I met in a very friendly manner which is a nonverbal dhv. I introduce myself to the guys first so they won't be obstacles later. The way I did it was by smiling initially and then starting a thread of conversation. I opened everyone in the pregame and the purpose of a pregame was to get everyones spirits lifted before the club. I opened the girls with "On a scale of 1 to 10, how fucked up are you right now?" I usually don't use profanity but it was suiting. The girls responded better than expected with smiles and said the were at a three which I took as they wanted to drink more. After I opened and made a little small chat I jumped to another set and I did this multiple times. After I got the answers(most were 3-4) I told the girls it was time for another shot and they quickly got up and followed me. They were now my set and when other people saw five different girls preparing to take shots with me the rest of the party (20 people) followed. I quickly noted and told one of the girls "I love how I started this and now everyone is taking shots" to flip her attraction switch (leader of men).
    The key is being able to move from set to set and make every set have a favorable experience. Other people will see this and your social value goes through the roof making it easier to do compliance tests because people want your attention and will follow you because you could potentially merge sets becoming the key to meeting more fun people.

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    Default Re: Social proofing

    I think leader of men attraction switch is like "status" amongst men. I am wondering if by helping other men this generates "status".

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    Default Re: Social proofing

    I think leader of men attraction switch is like "status" amongst men. I am wondering if by helping other men this generates "status".

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    Default Re: Social proofing

    sorry for the repeat. I cant delete it because I am on a phone.

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    Default Re: Social proofing

    No worries man! The whole point is to turn on the leader of men switch establishing your dominance over the scene and all the potential sets. Helping other men in sets is a double edge sword. Its good to be a wing at times but you lose potential targets if you help others and people may notice that and perceive the person you are helping as the AMOG. Also, if your other friend doesn't have good inner game and doesn't know how to handle potential targets that a dlv for you. I see other men as obstacles so I deal with them first this way they aren't a problem later. its important to make good conversation with them for at least a good minute or so this way others see that you are interesting. You also want to be aware of your body language at all times.


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