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    Grey2fox is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Why I'm moving away from dating and never 'put a ring on it'

    Straight of the bat you might be asking"so why are you still here?" Or "who are you?".Here's a short 'about me' so I first joined here late 2013 to improvemy game and learn the intricacies of dating (be that of online ordating in general). At first I learned from shared experiences withother people here and soon after I found my own way in the world. Irealised learning about picking up women or how to talk to them orengage them in general won't get you far if you are insecure. I hadto first come into terms with who I am and what I look like. My mottois before you love or like someone else, you have to love and likethe skin you live in. Accept yourself before you accept someone elseinto your life. You need to find solid footing on solid ground beforeyou start juggling knives.

    We are all here learning how to meetthat “one” and or get laid in the process. This is becoming moreand more difficult in westernised countries such as UK (I've alsoheard similar experiences in Australia and USA) because of aprevailing attitude of female entitlement by Radical MilitantFeminists (RMF). They've propagated the idea that women are entitledto most if not all things that men have worked for without lifting afoot. The dating scene is difficult or becoming difficult. Marriageis becoming difficult. Parenthood is becoming difficult. We shouldn'thave the need to create witty responses on a date to the questions“What do you do for a living?” or “What car do you drive?”.My friend went on a date recently and the girl asked for his bankstatement. She conducted a credit check on the first date at therestaurant. Waa Taa Faa!!

    Men are staving and shying away frommarriage and for the simple reason that divorce courts favour women.A woman could cheat on you and you would still be kicked out of thehouse you paid for, the kids you fathered and you get to watch herbanging her new boy toy on the bed you slept on and eating food fromthe fridge you paid for. You get to watch a stranger discipliningyour kids. You get to lose half your wealth and having the privilegeto work twice as hard to pay alimony. Women pay alimony too butcompared to the proportion of men living miserably due to divorcesettlements is a drop in the ocean.

    Let's face it, the standard of women inthe UK is abysmal. They know it and they know we don't have a choice.Sex is being used as a currency. The privilege of you being with awoman and paying for everything by sacrificing your friends andwell-being is down to the privilege of you having sex with her andI'm not referring to pump and dump (which exacerbates the situationin general). RMF have given power and entitlement to ALL women.Their agenda is propagated by internet memes such as “Real men likecurves”. I don't like fatties and uglies. No, it's not OK to beobese and happy. It's unhealthy and you are more prone to diseasessuch as diabetes and heart attacks.

    RMF have painted men's health issues asunicorns and leprechauns and you can see it in the female psyche.Young women are indoctrinated to believe as soon as a man showscracks, dump him and find someone stable. The first sign of emotionyou show or a side of you that defies her perception of you or howshe wants you to be, you get the honour of being dumped. If theycan't change you or control you, they leave you. If you don't put aring on it when they want you to, they leave you. They don't care ifyou are not ready or that you don't need a certificate to say you aremonogamous.

    For every issue a woman has, there'sover100 helplines and organisations. Men? Well there was a male helpcentre in the UK that was set up to help men and that got shut downas RMF campaigned why it should exist as let's face it “men don'thave issues”. In 1999, a doctor realised mental health issues andother issues in general pertaining to men were never highlighted orreceived enough recognition as much as womens issues do so he set upInternational Men's Day celebrated on the 19th of Novemberevery year. I didn't even know it existed until recently. In 2001(with the support of United Nations) 19th of November wasearmarked as a special day to celebrate International Toilet Day. ToRMFs nothing says men are full of shit then picking the same day tocelebrate lack of toilets across the world.


    'What's that you say, suicide ratesamongst young men under 35 in the UK is higher than that of women ofany age group?....But...but. ..Did you know that 1 in 10 people haveno choice but to shit in the open?'


    Learn to be happy in general. A womanwill not get you happiness and let's face it, it's genuinely cheaperto get a high quality escort and focus on yourself than going througha minefield of self-entitled beasts.

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    Default Re: Why I'm moving away from dating and never 'put a ring on it'

    Apologise for no spacing in some words. For some reason the formatting in open office document did not translate that well with copy and pasting. That will teach me to proof read before submitting instead of doing it in open office.

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    Default Re: Why I'm moving away from dating and never 'put a ring on it'

    Learn to be happy in general. A womanwill not get you happiness and let's face it, it's genuinely cheaperto get a high quality escort and focus on yourself than going througha minefield of self-entitled beasts.Learn to be happy in general.
    first of all, general happiness should be your first and foremost life goal. people who think that having a great relationship is going to solve all their problems and make them completely happy are delusional at best. the truth is that having personal happiness before you meet that someone will allow your love life to be the icing on that cake.

    personal finances do play a role in mating. lets face it a marriage is more of a legally binding financial contract than an expression of true love. one does not have to have love to get married and one does not have to get married to have true love. however, a woman is going to want a man who can help support a family (wich is the end result of having lots of sex with a person) most women in their mid to late 20's are definitely thinking about kids. and no woman wants to be stuck in poverty the rest of her life because she had kids with a deadbeat who can't support them. thus women almost universally want a man who is financially stable.

    now it can be easey to fall into the trap of thinking in extremes. when you take the fact that "some women marry for wealth" and stretch it to "all women just want money" you are generalizing and making a gross assumption that their aren't people out their that are generous and not greedy.

    where your argument does gain a little merit is that people in general typically marry people of similar socio-economic status. this is more because they are living similar lives at similar socio-economic levels. it is also because in modern society's there is a certain polarization of classes. rich people don't associate with the poor and the poor don't associate with the rich. this causes rich people to marry rich people and poor people to marry poor people. seldom are poor women able to advance their class by marrying the wealthiest men. (that only works for the most attractive women of low socio-economic status.)

    I'm sure you're upset over some woman who looked past you because you didn't dress nice or couldn't afford a nice car. but that woman simply enforcing her idea that she wants to date within her socio-economic class. not many people have the opportunity to change their socio-economic status, it could be tempting for women to look for a wealthy man, but most end up finding someone of similar status to them.

    as a side note, there are plenty of users in this world men and women alike. any woman who wants to see a mans bank statement to date him has laid her hand on the table that she is only in the game for the money. not many women are like that, but it would be naïve to say that socio-economic status doesn't play a role in deciding who to have children with.


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