I think now I have gone beyond being a newbie.Let me start from the beginning,I came to USA from the middle east and immediately was challenged by society to find where u fit in.Unlike others like me who ostracize themselves from American society I challenged myself to learn both English and the social mechanism's of western culture.I joined a fraternity(only international guy in a frat in a school over 25,000 people)and forced myself to learn.(I joined other societies as well.)
Now you have a background on me here's what I want to learn.In the beginning I was hung over specific girls you the "one" bullsh1t.I guess I stopped being a newbie when I realized almost every girl is disposable there is no reason to go threw heart break after heart break after a girl.This was a revelation for myself a long stride away from where I was.I couldn't even recognize myself in the mirror.Now I am constantly texting different girls keeping "on my toes" and not letting the "rod" go cold if you know what I mean.But there are a few sticky points I need help with.
For example I need a game plan with HB9-10,
Let me give some example's
1) I was talking to this girl HB9 easy.Conversation was good she was in one of my classes and then later(like 4months later) I meet her in a party.She said she recognized me and really appreciated my contributions in class.Let me tell you what happened earlier I was in the middle east and I have seen some horrible stuff so I shared my experiences in a class.Anyways in a discussion this girl was like how she wanted to be doctor and how being a girl she doesn't get the opportunities her male counterparts get blah blah blah....
Anyways after she was done I raised my hand and said to her with the whole class listening "I think HB9 you are very intelligent but you asking life the wrong question you should not ask life what you have to do to be recognized as successful in the eyes of other ppl but ask life what makes you happy,if being a doctor is what you truly want to do the do it but be sure about it life only come once".Some girls actually gasped and started crying and sh1t it was weird.Anyways back to the party she was like how she really liked what I said to her and how not many guys talk to her like that blah blah blah blah.She asked me for my number etc.Then although at this point I was doing light kino and running routines.She said how she was so comfortable around me etc because she dint feel like I was there to make out with her etc.A couple of days later I added her on facebook and then texted her 1 no reply fark it I said
So what is my mistake.
2) I meet this girl at a party.Played the normal routines with her HB-9.She was like here take my number when again I didn't ask for it.Was doing kino and was getting not hot but warm ioi's(touching her hair etc).Texted her once no response(after I already chatted with her on Facebook).I said fark it moved on.
see the pattern countless times this kinda stuff has
happened with HB(9-10)
What I have realized is that in college number closes don't mean sh1t what happens, happens in the moment or not at all.
what am I doing wrong advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated.
Thanks for reading