Be the Flame, not the moth
Hey to everyone,
After being on this forum for awhile, reading a significant amount of PUA material and going out in the field regularly to practice and improve my game I have come to a very interesting observation.
Guys want to be Moths. Not the flame.
This is an enormous key to attraction. I see post after post of guys trying to "catch" the girl that they want.
THIS WILL NOT WORK!
You must attract women to you. You must see them all as moths and that there are many of them. In order to attract many moths all you need to do is turn on a light.
You must be that light. You want women to be drawn to your display of value, social proof, and your presence.
When you can achieve this, women will begin to give you ioi's and come after you. Then you will trigger preselection and many more will fall in.
This is about your Mindset!
There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.
Be the flame, not the moth.