Alright, there have been many people, especially the ones with one-itis, who have been complaining on and on and on, on websites such as this. I can't take any more of this crap, so I'll be sharing my point of view here today.
If this helps you, I'll be happy for you.
Also, feel free to give me any feedback.
Whether positive or negative, I welcome both.
Firstly, if you screwed up your first date/encounter/lay/interaction/chess-game/whatever, stop complaining! You're not helping yourself this way.
Do you honestly think that you're going to be able to get girls by sitting on your chair and complaining to people how you can't get this girl when you're not even putting the minimum effort to try to fail. Yes, there will be times when you fail. Farking move on!
So what if you've comlained and give yourself excuses? So what? It does and will not help. You're not a farking girl.
Go And Do Something About It.
You can't expect ridiculous miracles to happen overnight without doing anything to help yourself.
Stop your excessive-porn-watching-desperate-need-to-cum-by-overly-masturbating.
What you need to do is ADMIT that you're a sucker. You're a noob, AFC, whatever jargon there is. Admit your mistake and that you suck. This is crucial.
Next, adopt a positive and optimistic attitude towards life in general. What you're going to learn is not how to lay girls, or get girls to blow you off. No. You're going to learn how to change yourself completely. You're going to become an even greater person.
Now, because you've already admitted your mistakes, there is no point in harping on the past. Focus on the present and the future. Here, instead of saying "I suck", say "I can be better, I WILL be better".
Most guys here who can't get girls are not able to because they lack one crucial element.
Let me break this down. Those of you here are probably not leaders, in pick up terms the "Alpha Male", you are the Followers, the back-up plan, the losers, the "beta monkey".
What you need to do is build self respect. You need to be able to appreciate yourself. Now, you might say "No, I don't want to change. I want people to accept me for who I am.".
Now, unless you're a totally naive retard, I suggest you listen. People don't give a fark about you not getting friends, or for that matter, girls, for being yourself. Let me repeat. Nobody gives a fark.
Only you do. Only YOU can, have the motivation to, will want to change yourself. Only you can make a difference.
You need to accept you are not changing yourself to impress people. People will NOT care what happens to you along the way. They only care about what you've become.
Start being confident, start holding your head up high. Start smiling, start talking, start being the Leader. Start learning to Control your life. Start learning when to say "No". Start telling yourself "I want to be better so that I can BE better", "This is MY choice".
Start by gaining confidence, learn to respect yourself. You are the best, you are amazing, YOU are the Alpha Male.
No more bullsh1t, no more excuses, no more saying "I can't..", no more backing out, no more trying to impress people. Impress yourself.
You will be what you want to be if you just do it.
As Yoda says, Do or Do Not. There is no Try.
If you'd like a suggestion, go to youtube and watch videos made by "OGFurious".
He is extremely retarded, yes, but he is totally confident. He is what he knows he is, He is the Alpha Male. He makes vlogs, pickup, "martial arts", and just plain retarded videos. Watch him, adopt his attitude and incorporate this new way of thinking in your life.
Only you can make a difference.
All the best, guys
Oh, and one more thing.
Get a fucking hobby.