Alpha Male And Other Myths In PUA.

I think, alpha males theories doesnt work, and are not based in woman real mentality.

Basically this means most of pick up theories are wrong.

what u wrote is so wrong, so what u're saying is that a women doesn't care if a guy is a man or not, women like pussies and guys that get beat up and get picked on thats why all the nerds in high school had dates on prom. they like guys that are too scared to defend them in a tough situation, they don't like to feel safe with a guy................. ........

You have a good argument.

I think woman dont fall for nerds basically because nerds doesnt display interest and passion on them. Not because nerds are not agressive, Woman are also scared of agressive man.

Ok, who defines alpha. Woman or society in general?

When world alpha male is spoken i remember animals like wolfs and lions, alpha is always the stronger, and therefore the leader because he can beat down anyone on the group.

He can take any female he wants to because nobody will take them away from it.

When it comes to human kind, i remember medieval times, and tribal barbarian existence. I think about warrior, a war machine whos only used to blood and battle adrenaline.

Not a womanizer with lots of female psycological knowledge.

A real alpha male in the past would be this man who comes back from battle as a hero and chooses the woman he wants to without anyone standing in front of him. I guess if a woman wouldnt want him, he would probably rape her.

Well, Im trying to get to the point, where beeing charming with woman, has notting to do with ALpha behavior. Its more like a beta thing.

Common guys i think i have a revolutionary theory. Wanna talk a lot about it. Best way to see if im right is arguing with others.

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You have it all wrong man. Plain and Simple. Nerds in high school didn't have dates because they didn't demonstrate leadership, they don't demonstrate confidence, they get caught up on one girl, not thinking about the fact that there's a ton of girls out there, but instead establishing "one-itis", and they come across as needy.

plus the points that Xavier made. Girls wants to feel safe, protected. If you don't display this quality in one way or another, in most cases she'll find someone else that does.

If you take one MMA fighter he can beat around 3 or more, with the same size and category. I mean if you have social inteligence to make 10 friends, this strong enemy will probably not be totally socially stupid and lets say, make around 3 friends, 3 friends who knows how to fight can beat down 10 guys who doesnt know how to fight.

Well, i also inspire myself in the fact that are millions of nerds out there, with amazing girls, of course, they meet them on lucky mode on. I mean its a girl from college university work, or some other place where they were forced to live togheter.

Easiest way to Meet Girls is when u are forced to live togheter with them for a long period, she will feel safe with you, she will trust you and become atracted.

When i was a school boy i was shy, i never hit on girls, but they for some reason seemed to enjoy me, and sometimes hit on me, i was to shy to let something happen, therefore i just let them go.

What i mean is that alliance is more powerful than strength. In our history the most powerful men weren't the physically strongest but the ones who had great leadership and social intelligence. Muscles or martial arts wont get you laid otherwise there would be no need for PUA theories, every men would just be hitting the gym. What we learn here is to become socially intelligent,