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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    The eyes to lips tirangulation isn't a "trigger"....
    it's an indicator that she's interested in you & most likely thinking about kissing you, if she does it.
    T-mal, Zlostsoul meant if you do it and not the girl.
    Why do you think that it is not a trigger? Kissing on its own can be a sexual trigger. When you are doing the mouth eyes tirangulation to a girl where there is attraction and she notices it then you are building Tension. Is it sexual tension? It might not be a sexual trigger but it does cause some tension.
    I do it at times, and look at her response. If it is positive I go in for the kiss.
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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    Kissing her neck and biting her ear softly...very powerful...

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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    there are mental triggers and (which lead to) physical triggers:

    1. breathing into a girls ear is a physical trigger.
    2. starting at her lips with a smirk, triangulating her face, etc is a mental trigger (it's getting her thinking).

    so escalating a women using mental triggers before you get to the physical triggers will always have a more powerful results.

    if you want to really know what triggers women, go find any romance, erotica, or mixed book that you can stand reading (like 50 shade of grey) and highlight all of these patterns (there is usually 1 on each page and it increases based on the intensity of the chapters):

    {HE DID THIS} "and it" {VERB} "me" {EMOTION/ACTION}.

    for example:

    {He slid his hand up the groove in my back} and it {elevated} my breathing to {miniature grasps for air}

    Girls read this stuff all the time, and this is how they are socially programmed. One of the exercises I used to do was trying to mimic being a woman for a day by getting my nails done, getting my hair done, reading a romance novel, and pee sitting down. Sounds stupid, but make no mistake. You WILL learn to relate and understand a girls mind.

    Their emotions and turn-ons are BY FAR more mental than ours.
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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    Sinn has got a list of 7 of them, but he wants $67 for it. Not sure if anyone can give us the Readers Digest (oh, they went out of business) version of this without violating his copyright, but that would be helpful.
    Ne2a

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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    OP: It sounds like you're looking for IOIs that you can do consciously to get results? It's important to make any of these look unconscious and unplanned.

    Playing with hair: Fiddling with, pulling on or even scratching one's hair is a subconscious ioi. Combing your own hair back once in awhile can trigger a reaction- if she then also plays with her hair you're on the right track.

    Glancing at lips: A quick glance, not a stare. Make it seem like an accident and go back to looking up at her. Her conscious mind won't pick up on it and it secretly tells her you find her arousing but are the type to stay in control of your needs and desires (which is a HUGE turn on for women). The more the conversation goes on the more often you can use this.

    Playing with lips: This is a big indicator. Sometimes when I'm gaming sitting down I'll be leaning forward with my head cradled in one hand (IOI); when they say something interesting or arousing I'll touch my lip with one or two fingers for a second or two and then move it back. Important to retain eye contact while doing this- make it stealth! Combos nicely from playing with hair.

    Mirroring posture: Some people overdo this so watch out. If her arms are crossed, keep talking for 3-10 seconds then surreptitiously do the same. If she's gesticulating when she speaks, gesticulate when you speak. You don't have to do the exact movements but make sure your arms and posture are approximately the same. Once you've gone through this a few times you can test this link by, after you've been in the same position for an exchange or three, changing your body posture. If she follows, you're blazin'.

    These are the ones I'm most familiar with and the ones I use most often. There are probably more out there.
    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    Girls read this stuff all the time, and this is how they are socially programmed. One of the exercises I used to do was trying to mimic being a woman for a day by getting my nails done, getting my hair done, reading a romance novel, and pee sitting down. Sounds stupid, but make no mistake. You WILL learn to relate and understand a girls mind.
    You're a genius.

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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterKiller View Post
    OP: It sounds like you're looking for IOIs that you can do consciously to get results? It's important to make any of these look unconscious and unplanned.

    Playing with hair: Fiddling with, pulling on or even scratching one's hair is a subconscious ioi. Combing your own hair back once in awhile can trigger a reaction- if she then also plays with her hair you're on the right track.

    Glancing at lips: A quick glance, not a stare. Make it seem like an accident and go back to looking up at her. Her conscious mind won't pick up on it and it secretly tells her you find her arousing but are the type to stay in control of your needs and desires (which is a HUGE turn on for women). The more the conversation goes on the more often you can use this.

    Playing with lips: This is a big indicator. Sometimes when I'm gaming sitting down I'll be leaning forward with my head cradled in one hand (IOI); when they say something interesting or arousing I'll touch my lip with one or two fingers for a second or two and then move it back. Important to retain eye contact while doing this- make it stealth! Combos nicely from playing with hair.

    Mirroring posture: Some people overdo this so watch out. If her arms are crossed, keep talking for 3-10 seconds then surreptitiously do the same. If she's gesticulating when she speaks, gesticulate when you speak. You don't have to do the exact movements but make sure your arms and posture are approximately the same. Once you've gone through this a few times you can test this link by, after you've been in the same position for an exchange or three, changing your body posture. If she follows, you're blazin'.

    These are the ones I'm most familiar with and the ones I use most often. There are probably more out there.


    You're a genius.
    these sound good, i will definitely put these to practice

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    Default Re: List known sexual triggers

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    there are mental triggers and (which lead to) physical triggers:
    There are many types of sexual triggers. Generally speaking the first type of attraction is physical, thus the first sexual triggers are physical but not in the way you might think. For example, a man in a group of friends who is obviously the leader can be a trigger. Sitting with your arms outward on the backs of the chairs next to you, is a very dominant posture and is also a physical trigger. Some physical triggers illicit emotional and mental triggers as well. They can be simple, or complex but should follow the natural forms and ways of attraction.

    Physical, Mental and Emotional triggers. These can be Socially programed by learning, like a woman interested in a man who has money, or genetic in that a woman is looking for a man who can provide. If you wish to illicit a response in a woman that is more natural, you will use the triggers that affect her genetic programing, if you wish to be more obvious, then you might throw around money.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    1. breathing into a girls ear is a physical trigger.
    2. starting at her lips with a smirk, triangulating her face, etc is a mental trigger (it's getting her thinking).
    Unless you are already intimate, meaning you have already touched her. Breathing into a girls ear might come off as a little pervy. There is that whole western culture learn response to heavy breathing by prank phone callers. When employing physical triggers, you must also be mindful of those things that are also socially programed. There is a right time, and right way to employ certain triggers. If done correctly they might help you overcome those natural obstacles, if employed incorrectly they will throw up red flags. The trick is understand when to employ them, and which to employ. This is why so many of these programs work when followed, and why they fail miserably when not followed in correct order.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    so escalating a women using mental triggers before you get to the physical triggers will always have a more powerful results.
    You do not have to touch a woman to employ a physical trigger. For example, and this men can relate to. Whenever a woman slowly licks a lollypop, or eats a banana, men think straight away about specific things such as oral sex. That is a physical trigger that affects a man mentally, physically and even sometimes emotionally. Like I said above, the first time of attraction of one person to another, is almost always physical if you are not meeting online.

    Employing a trigger that affects a woman physically follow the natural programing of attraction. A loose posture, relaxed pose, and ease of walking, head up, shoulders straight, confident posture, these are all physical triggers, and all work. Matter of fact, one of the most commonly practiced and successful physical triggers is to look directly into a woman's eyes, while she is across a room. How many stories, movies, plays have mentioned this trigger specifically? I have found it's far better to illicit several physical triggers prior to employing others.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    if you want to really know what triggers women, go find any romance, erotica, or mixed book that you can stand reading (like 50 shade of grey) and highlight all of these patterns (there is usually 1 on each page and it increases based on the intensity of the chapters):

    {HE DID THIS} "and it" {VERB} "me" {EMOTION/ACTION}.

    for example:

    {He slid his hand up the groove in my back} and it {elevated} my breathing to {miniature grasps for air}

    Girls read this stuff all the time, and this is how they are socially programmed.
    These are not always just social programmed. They are also sometimes genetic evolutionary adaptations like a man who is attracted to a woman with larger breasts and hips. This is because a woman who gave birth was far more likely to be able to do so and the baby survive as well as she if her hips were wider, and larger breasts produce and provide more milk.

    Also, these books are often times written by men, from a man's point of view. If you are reading literatica, you might do well to pay attention to the author. A woman for example is far more likely to write about what turns her on or illicits a response from her, but in what context has great value, and in what way. Also, in literatica, there is most likely far more socially programed triggers than genetic. This is also worth your while to pay attention to. Male literatica writers will tend to write about things that either they have seen work, or have worked for themselves. The interesting thing about writers is that they often observe and write about what they see, without understanding the social interaction on a deeper level. When it comes to literatica, very few are doing actual research but if you are able, it would be worth your time to find out if they have, or have not.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    One of the exercises I used to do was trying to mimic being a woman for a day by getting my nails done, getting my hair done, reading a romance novel, and pee sitting down. Sounds stupid, but make no mistake. You WILL learn to relate and understand a girls mind.
    Actually, there is empirical evidence that has proven in multiple studies that have been done on the subject, that a woman's mind actually processes information differently than a male. So while you might be able to understand how the smell of getting your nails done annoys you, or how frustrating it might be to sit for hours having your hair done, or what reading a romance novel might be like, you will never understand why women do these things anyway, or the feelings and emotions attached to them. Trying to mimic women to understand them better is really a waste of time, you will never ever be able to understand a woman's mind in any way that is significant, you can only understand how what you do specifically, affects her specifically. But for a man to believe he can ever think as a woman, unless he already identifies as being female, is really a pipe dream. Your brain literally does not process information in the same way. It would be the difference of trying to run a MAC OS on a PC, or maybe a better analogy is if you attempting to load a MAC program onto a Windows PC system. They use different code, so will never work. And I'm sorry, women do you not to relate to a man in that he might know what it feels like to pee sitting down, or getting their nails done. Not unless he is gay, and actually doing those activities with her, as a friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    Their emotions and turn-ons are BY FAR more mental than ours.
    I would say a woman's sexuality exists more in the mental AND EMOTIONAL parts of their brain rather than physical as with men. Men are just as mental about sex, but in a more physical way. When tested, men and women light up about the same percentage of their brain during sex. But it's in very different areas of the brain.

    C...


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