Friend Stole my Girl. Should I Still Trust Him?

My friend and I was at a bar. The bar was dead and we were tipsy already. A two set walks in the bar. I approached them first so by the rules I get to pick the girl. My friend does not know about the rules of the game and worst, right after my Opener, he asks if they have boy friends. One said yes and the other said no, which means one of us is most likely not going to be successful. Luckly, my target is the single girl. After many drinks[ my friend bought all of them btw] and horrible game, we went for a smoke outside. He then starts going Kino on the girl that he clearly knows im hitting on. I dont know why I allowed him to do it. Knowing that my game is not good enough to get the other girl, I left with that WTF feeling.Long story short, my friend ends up sleeping with her.

I don't care about losing the girl. There will be other chances for me to lose my virginity. However, after this incident I don't know if I can trust my friend anymore and worst, I see him everyday at school. I dunno what to do.

Teach him the rules, and if he doesn't learn to respect you up your game and AMOG him. I can't deal with disrespectful people like that, they're only gonna put you down.

Drop this friend, he seems untrustworthy. I only wonder what he is going to do on your wedding day...

This was a girl at a bar... this wasn't his girlfriend or his wife and I don't think it's fair to compare this situation to either. If he pulls something like this on someone's wife then you have every right to pulverize him, but not here.

In my opinion there are no "rules" when you're out at the bars with your friends. If your friend has better game than you with a girl you're interested in and she ends up liking him more, then so be it, up your game. My friends have ended up hooking up with girls I have been interested in and vice versa.

Who needs enemies when you have friends like that?

you should talk to your friend and asked him about what happen, tell him about your guys rules.
sometimes it really happens specially you guys said are already drunk.
but now it is the matter of friendship and trust. so you should talk to him.

Dude,
i know how you feel. It is sooo dam frustrating. The only advice i can give you is to be more confident. Dont let your friend tread in on your space! I would just speak to him and explain the rules, when you next see him. Who knows he will probably be able to help you out, and if not, you'll find out if he is really a friend or not!

I wouldnt read into it soo much, remember, he doesnt know the rules. So explain them to him and see what his reaction is then.

Good luck Bro!

Speak to your friend, but don't just hate on him. Even though you opened them that girl wasn't even yours yet. She's technically still free game if you can't hook her, meaning you need to up your game regardless of the rules because most people don't play by rules. Even though there's a community here, it's a dog eat dog world out there, you can't rely on rules to save you.

or.. avoid the situation entirely by going out with your friend but doing your pickup entirely alone and tell him that if he sees you in set to leave you your space out of respect.

Pickup is a solo activity when you are first learning. You want to learn how to operate without the moral support of anyone at all. You guys should split up and develop your own sets separate from eachother until such time as you "gel" as wingmen. Otherwise one will always piss in the other one's wheaties.

Wingmen are a team, and there is no "I" in Team. So until you guys can operate effectively together as a team, you really should separate and develop your own sets individually and only after you have mastered that can you begin to work together to blend groups and all the other fun social dynamics that require a wingman.

I prefer to operate alone myself. To many times have I had "wingmen" that just plain get in the way of what I'm trying to accomplish.