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    Tha_beast_Mike is offline PUA in Training
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    Default ADVICE NEEDED-how to be more INTERESTING

    Watsup playa's Mike here.

    So I have come pretty far in the last week, getting over my aa in a big way. I have no problem opening sets, manipulating body language, tone, pauses etc. I just have one BIG problem.

    I struggle to be interesting, I have been opting for the more dicect approach but I just cant seem to be very interesting to talk to, do you guys have any suggestions on how to be more interesting?

    While writing this I have thought of cold reading which I can do pretty easly, I just wanna be genuinely interesting because I think that is a KEY component to pick-up.

    And just a lil lesson I learned, dont take rejection too personally, and persevere through it.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    ''the lone eagle''

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    Suave Kino is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: ADVICE NEEDED-how to be more INTERESTING

    Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Also, bro you need a stack. You should have an array of interesting topics on hand to bring up whenever the conversation starts to slow down. There is nothing wrong with going direct but you should have somewhere to take the convesation afterwards.

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    SmoothPUA is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: ADVICE NEEDED-how to be more INTERESTING

    If you LISTEN to what she is saying, you will get a lot of threads to keep the conversation going. Often times, we are stuck in our own head so worried about what to say next, we miss all the great topics that could be derived from HER talking. And if you go blank, just repeat word-by-word what she said and she will agree with you and explain more about it ("Reflective listening"). Example:
    Her:"I don't like this bar"
    You: "You don't like this bar"
    Her:"Yeah...it's just too crowded. Crobar is so much better"
    You: "Crobar?"
    Her:"Yeah, plus the bartender gives me free drinks..yada yada..."

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    Default Re: ADVICE NEEDED-how to be more INTERESTING

    And reading might help. Reading a variety of topics.


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