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Old 02-12-2012, 02:07 PM
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Woke up this morning texted like 8 girls and 6 of them responded. Except for the 2 I really like lol. Feel really bummed. I'm still going to go the gym get a haircut and sarge today, I have been planning this routine for some time just wondering why its always the ones I like that I fark up on. Does anyone else get caught up ona girl even though they have other options. I know I'm being an AFC I'm just wondering if everyone gets frustrated with the hb10s that slip through your fingers?


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Old 02-12-2012, 06:55 PM
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Default Re: oneitis remedy??

yes i do this too, you likely get hyper focused and forget to breathe and tense up sports psyches talk about this stuff all the time. when you forget to breathe it gets worse and worse. your temp goes up, your oxygen goes down and you start to pant, by then its too late and has effected your thoughts and actions. learn to not do this.


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Old 02-12-2012, 11:53 PM
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Everyone does. Even the professional PUAs (even if they say they don't) but they just know how to deal with it. My remedy is haagen dazs and The Notebook (just kidding, though that movie is a successful piece of chick crack). Personally, I'm a fan of finding more women, doing my meditations, or hitting the gym to take my mind off of things. I know your feeling, because I am going through a small case of oneitis at the moment but those 3 things will solve it soon enough. Good work for still going out by the way.


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Old 02-13-2012, 12:37 AM
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yeah just got home and blew it on 3 sets in a row. 1st set i opened so well but i over negged them. the next one i number closed and third they were irish chicks on holiday who said they would never hook up with non irish. lol the 4th one was crying cause she got dumped for valentine.


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Old 02-13-2012, 03:33 AM
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It's really hard to get over a case of one-itis...but it can be done. Basically, all one-itis is, is blowing one girls' worth totally out of proportion. She's probably not really as good as you're talking yourself into believing she is. There are plenty of other girls out there in the world who are just as "special" as she is...meet them, interact with them...

That's the only way to not care.


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Old 02-14-2012, 08:38 PM
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It's like Uncle Wayne says in Ghosts of Girlfriends Past "It's your feelings for her that's killing your game". You probably act different around the ones you like which may come off as undesirable. When ever you start to prefer certain girls over others lay off them for a bit so you'll never get one-itis.


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Old 02-16-2012, 12:16 AM
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Though I would usually go against any advice from a Matthew McConaughey film, this time yeah that's true. I'm thinking of taking a small break away from my oneitis. Can't have those thoughts floating around in this game.


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