I may have just friend-zoned myself...

This girl works at a coffee stand where I know all the girls that work there. One of the girls is a really good friend of mine since childhood. I met HB10 at this friend's birthday party. Got her number and started talking to her a few days later. Started out good right away making eachother laugh, good random conversation, all of that. Asked her if she wanted to hang out and thats when she got a little weird. First she said yeah, then she said maybe we shouldn't because she didn't want things to get weird. So I said cool and let her think about it for a while. I asked her again a couple days later and she said "yeah I think we should" I said cool. It comes to the day she does't answer her phone or text. She tells me the next day she forgot her phone at her sisters house and she's so sorry.

I played it cool at that point. I figured maybe she doesn't want to do the alone thing yet. So I get my friend and her bf to agree to go out with us since HB10 and my friend Nicole work together and really like eachother. That worked perfect! We went to a house party, hung out for a bit, it was kinda lame so me and HB10 decide to brake away and walk to a bar close by. We went there saw some other people we knew and ended up having a great time together. But HB10 got hella drunk! Nicole and her bf come to the bar and we all leave. HB10 passed-out on the car ride home. None of know where she lived so Nicole said she staying at your house. I said fine she can sleep on my couch. She ended up throwing up and sh1t when we brought her in, it was a nightmare. She passed out on my living room floor. I went to bed.

At like 6am she came back to life and goes in my bathroom (I live in a studio condo so the bathroom is basically in my bedroom). She takes off her clothes in there and then comes and crawls in my bed. I was still half asleep. I wake up and I was stoked! We started talking and cuddling or whatever, but I couldnt get the thought of her puking out of my mind so I didn't go for the kiss or make any moves past cuddling and stuff.

I didn't talk to her for a couple days after that morning. I heard a few days later from another girl friend of mine that HB10 said she basically threw herself at me and I kinda blew her off. I was like "Damn!" So I hit her up and started talking like normal. Since then everytime I try to hang out with her she doesn't want to. Except one night we hung out with other friends at a karaoke bar but nothing exclusive. She wants to talk and text like every single day. For the last few weeks now. We talk all the time. Like a lot!

So I haven't texted her in a few days now and she hasn't me either. I'm trying to get her to miss me a little maybe or something. She has told me she's not looking to get into a relationship because she has a "commitment" thing. I said that's cool I am enjoying being single as well.

This girl is awesome! She is so cool, and funny, and incredibly sexy! Its ridiculous! But the question is did I friend-zone myself? Do I still have a chance to make it happen? I know she finds me attractive her friends have told me that. I know she likes to talk to me. What do I need to do here guys! PLEASE HELP!!!

Thanks team!
Your wing, Brantonio

Great Story Brantonio, Respect.
I reckon you've got too much attachment and head stuff going on. Meantime you've scored big time, chill.

Anyone have any pointers or outside perspective?