New Member Introductions

This is the place for all of us to come and introduce ourselves to each other. Whether we are seasoned pickup artists who are looking to help others, or guys who are just learning how to seduce women and want to know how to get a girlfriend, then this is the place to start your journey. I know when I first had the opportunity to get some new member introductions from some great guys who seemed to be amazingly good with women I thought that they must either have some magic tricks that seduce women, amazing charisma or even just some secret funny pick up lines that I hadn't heard before. I just thought that these other guys had something in them that was what women want in terms of natural game, while I was just another AFC who was going to go through life without meeting the woman of my dreams.

If I would have found out about how to be more social earlier in my life I think I would have had more success with women earlier, but now that I am involved in the seduction community and being introduced to other guys with the same goals for meeting and dating high quality women, I feel that I am in the place I want to be in my dating life. Heck it has gotten so good, that I don't even need to apply any of the online dating advice that I have learned on my journey.

My journey began when I met a few other guys in New York and we started hanging out and going to place where it was easy to learn how to flirt with hot women and not feel like we had to prove anything to our normal friends. This environment fostered a feeling of us improving our game and we naturally became better with women. I can say that this honestly taught me how to get a girlfriend.

One of the things that really helped my game was reading the field reports from other guys who were more advanced than myself. It really gave me inspiration to go out and meet more women and try to have the same success that these guys were having. I also really started to read as many books as possible to become a better person. A good place to start is this list of recommended self improvement books that we've compiled after extensive research. These books really laid the foundation for my steady improvement in this area of my life. Lastly, and this is something you can not overlook, you need to look and feel your best. It is critical to seek out and follow a regiment of solid health and fitness advice as this will help you be on top of your game. It is hard to be a leader of men, when you are not your best self.

I also really started to seek out advice from other pick up artists. I would call or hang out with guys who had more skill than myself and discuss my current sticking points or issue I had when meeting or dating women. This was the real key, when I finally was able to find a local wing, his shared experiences really helped me grow and I became even better with women and dating.

Looking back, I just wish that I had learned how to pick up women earlier and was introduced sooner to some of the guys who I consider my friends and fellow pickup artists.