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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Great post! Can't wait to check out all the links! Thanks.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Hey guys. I'm new in this site so I'm kinda getting lost figuring it. Anyways the problem with me is that I'm way too shy to approach a girl and even if I do the fear of ending up as a fre@k in her eye really turns me down. Soooo any ideas?

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    Quote Originally Posted by darksecret98 View Post
    Hey guys. I'm new in this site so I'm kinda getting lost figuring it. Anyways the problem with me is that I'm way too shy to approach a girl and even if I do the fear of ending up as a fre@k in her eye really turns me down. Soooo any ideas?
    look no girl will see you as a freak as long as you don't do anything too creepy you have to learn that every embarasment or failure you feel is a learning experience and that you won't make the same mistake twice. not to mention that its only embarasing if you let it embarras you

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    well if youve got meteora as your mentor you will be taught well, im kinda new to the site as well, but ive been doing pick up for a while now and i teach a lot of the guys that see me do it and want to learn, and every last one of them has the same problem, approaching. the best thing that ive ever had them do, is walk around the mall and approach every attractive girl that they see and say the same thing, just to get them used to approaching. adam lyons used to be that he worlds number one pick up artist and his opener that he always uses is "do you know where the nearest starbucks is" and you can transition from that when you get good, but in the beginning most of the guys that i teach just approach, ask them the question, and say thanks and walk away, but over time they sort of come out of their shell. thats honestly the easiest way to learn and get comfortable with it, its innocent and its my fall back if i cant think of anything more creative than that.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    exactly and meteora is 100% right, just the other day i posted a field report about how i asked a girl where the nearest starbucks is when we were standing twenty feet from one and i didnt even see it, but instead of getting embarassed, i joked about it and let her make fun of me a bit, it makes her more comfortable with you a lot easier, i ended up getting a Number Close in under two minutes. if you dont let it embarass you, you can use that
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    um. The biggest problem with me is that I chicken out way too fast and you can totally read it from my body language that I'm scared. I don't know how to control my emotion

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Quote Originally Posted by darksecret98 View Post
    um. The biggest problem with me is that I chicken out way too fast and you can totally read it from my body language that I'm scared. I don't know how to control my emotion
    in pua we have this rule called the three second rule, that is you have to approach a girl within three seconds of eyecontact if you want the best results, this serves two purposes, one- to keep you from chickening out, and two- to not creep her out by hanging around her without talking i'll discuss it further next time i see you

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    yeah and i love that three second rule, that was what originally coaxed me from my shell, its a great rule if you are dedicated enough to set it for yourself
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    There seems so much to learn from this place.

    I just had a rough break up. Hope to get back into the game stronger and bigger.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Wow. Great content. I appreciate the links. I sure will get down to study them all
    Thanks again boss


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