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    Default The Newbie Guide

    If you're reading this, you're probably new to the forums. Welcome. This thread is made to help you on your way.

    If you haven't officially signed up as a member, do that here. It will open up much more features like being able to search the forums, create private message and of course participate!

    I've noticed a lot of fresh faces asking the same thing when they introduce themselves: I'm bad with women and want to improve in that area. Where do I start?

    You start by making changes within yourself. Don't worry, you don't have to become some macho guy. These changes will allow you to keep most of your personality. They're supposed to give you a confidence boost as well as some attractive traits that you'd like to have. Trust me. For example, being able to say 'no' to women will not only make you more attractive to them, but will also make sure you won't have to spend the evening doing something you don't want to. The traits that women like are those of an alpha male. Here is a thread about it. Here is another one.

    Something you can do while making alpha male changes within yourself is to work on your clothing. Find a style that suits you and that synchronizes with the kind of people you hang out and the women you want to attract. For example, if you want to attract classy businesswomen, dress in a suit or a good looking shirt (not a t-shirt). Most women prefer a well-dressed man so I recommend going for that look. It doesn't have to be expensive or of any kind of brand. Here is a list of threads about it.

    A special area within the clothing department is peacocking. The idea is to wear interesting pieces of clothing or jewellery that stand out from what others wear. This way women are more likely to notice you and it's easier for them to open you, by complimenting the piece. Here is a thread about it.

    Another aspect of the exterior is your body. It's important that you feel comfortable in your own body. If you need to lose weight, click this link. If you want to build a muscled body, click this link.

    Some of you don't know how to talk to women or how to keep a conversation going. If that sounds like you, click here. While talking to women you should use Kino Escalation to express your sexual interest. Here's a thread on that.

    As The Great Alpha Male thread stated, body language is an important factor in seducing women. However, it discussed your body language. If you want to know what she feels like, click here.

    You're all here to enrich your life by learning how to attract and seduce women. This can be done in multiple ways. Most gurus have a style that differs from one another. The main two differences are time and manner. For time there is day game and night game. For manner there is direct and indirect.

    Direct means you approach a woman and open by declaring interest. For example 'Hi, I thought you looked really cute so I came over to talk to you'.

    Indirect means you approach a woman by asking her something like an opinion. The idea is to engage in a conversation and make them attracted to you before you declare interest in them.

    Direct game takes more balls and it prevents a lot of headache. She knows why you're talking to her and either she's interested or she's not. No friend zone problems there when used properly. Using indirect game, you will be able to demonstrate higher value (DHV) before declaring interest, increasing your odds of getting the girl.

    The difference between day (stores, street, etc.) and night (bars, clubs) is the pace of the game. Where a good PUA can kiss a girl within minutes at night, it takes longer during the day. Also, bitch shields are down during the day and the social dynamics are different.


    Here are some links to help you on your way. These strategies are different from each other, but you're better off picking one and learn that before spreading to others.

    Direct Day Game. For more videos by Sasha, search Youtube for "Sasha PUA" or "Sasha Daygame".

    Mystery Method is the strategy used in "The Game". It's the most used version of indirect (night) game.

    Indirect-direct (Kino's Bombshell Method). Suave Kino is one of our expert regular posters.


    If you tried to use these methods and failed because you were too afraid to walk up to a woman, then you have Approach Anxiety (aa). Here is a thread that'll help you get rid of it.



    Here are some terms you should know about:
    IOI: Indicator of interest. These are signs a woman shows to let you know she's attracted to you.
    Opener: The line you say when making the first contact to a woman. The delivery is more important than the words.
    Kino: Touching a woman. Ranges from shaking hands to sexual handling.
    Number close (N-close): To get the girl's phone number.
    Fark close (F-close): To have sex with a woman.
    Kiss close (K-close): To kiss the woman.



    One more note: The most important difference between PUA's and players is the fact that we don't lie to or cheat on women. You can only lose women and respect by breaking that difference, so don't do it.

    I wish you the best of luck on your life-changing journey. Grab your balls and go for it!
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-07-2012 at 10:03 AM. Reason: Added Vin Dicarlo's kino system.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    +REP! Fantastic Post Virgil!

    I shall recommend this to anyone new to the world of PUA!

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Great job Virgil, way to help out the new guys.

    Rep+++

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Thanks, guys . I wanted to make this thread for some time but I wanted to finish reading a certain book on general body language first, so I could add info on that as well. It would allow you to read everything the woman feels. Not just attraction but also when she feels threatened, insecure, etc so you'd be able to adjust your game or behaviour to it. And it would enable you to see if she's lying or playing with you. But it's taking quite some time so I decided to just add that info later.
    Last edited by Virgil; 02-19-2012 at 04:56 PM.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Thanks bro, this is very organized; and insightful!

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Thanks man, lots of good stuff in here. Cant wait to start putting things to use.
    ~History will be good to me, for I intend to write it~

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    I've been pointed at two topics that would make a good addition to the newbie guide: Direct Game Technique (which explains direct game step-by-step) and the Boyfriend Destroyer Technique (which can make a taken girl yours). Both have been written by Xavier.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Thanks man, cant wait to put all this info to use. Seems like great stuff, especially for a guy like me who is new to the game.

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    Virgil,

    Great post! I'm a brand new member of the forum and I can't wait to learn all of this.

    Sam

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    Default Re: The Newbie Guide

    This is freaking awesome Virgil, much respect. I'm honored to have my style included, that is sweet!!!

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