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    Oseman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sarging first night solo tonight

    I am just creating a thread to make myself come back and report results to somebody. i just registered an act and tonight is my first night going out and opening sets. I am just looking to get to the hook and whatever happens after that ill learn from the mistake. I live in small town USA, but I have been called out walking to my car to get in a van full of 7-8's that wanted me to hook up with their friend no questions asked for 1 night. Its a small but crazy town. So tonight I just want to get used to overcoming aa and following the 3 sec rule. Also, learning and asking questions for people like what nights do things happen or are the most people around.

    wish me game.

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    Default Re: Sarging first night solo tonight

    Good luck brother! Great to see you know your stuff here! You shouldn't have a problem :P If so, it's all live and learn mate

    Remember your performance, and critique it after tonight is said and done. Keep in mind that it becomes far easier when you have wings as well

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    Oseman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sarging first night solo tonight

    ok my update:
    i went around to all the bars in town tonight and talked to the bartenders and bouncers and owners about what nights are the best nights and about the music. Friday, Saturday...no one goes out duringthe week. The main lesson I learned is that Monday nights suck. 3 women with easily 30 men. Only 1 worth while to even talk to surrounded by 6 guys-no lie. I was frustrated, these dudes were obviously chumps and i have all the advantages, even got IOId as I drove off in my Bimmer but that doesnt count. I give myself credit for a few things. I smiled and was high energy in a very frustratig field, felt good- didnt order any drinks but the bartender small talked me to death. I am going back out Friday for a more even field.

    I also learned the field is dynamic. A 3 set FFM quickly turned into a 4 set MFMF early in the night. I can see a window emerge that I will have to act during 3 sets.

    Also, I need a wing to start since I dont know anyone in the town. Sitting alone not knowing anyone would give too much power away from me to anyone Im thinking of apporaching.But I did journal everything and I cant get any worse from here. Id rather be rejected than sit alone all night.

    All in all I did have fun. It was interesting. I asked myself questions constantly about what I felt, the best ways to approach, ect. and journaled everything to go from here. Internally I know I deserve the better women over the guys they are with (nice salary, promotion coming soon, nice new car, great apartment). They talked to her about work and tatoos, and she obviously wasnt interested. But there was no room for approach while they are in full conversation, especially when 4 other guys come in. Maybe need to think about disarming blockers.

    my question of ur still with me, should I open with canned material?
    How do I Disarm 4 guys?
    What body language should I have when sitting?
    Im reading books on facial expression and body language atm and going to the gym everyday to try and up my advantage.

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    Default Re: Sarging first night solo tonight

    From what I have learned, when sitting the number one rule is to never slouch. Resist the urge to slouch over your drink, always be upright with with head up and shoulders down, not hunched. Also, show your confidence by taking up space. Don't sit with legs crossed, but with legs spread--obviously not obnoxiously spread apart, but enough to command your space. If someone sits next to you, don't acquiesce your space by making yourself small, just scoot over enough to not be a d1ck. Finally, talk to the people around you to show that you are good company and people want to interact with you. It's the always be flirting philosophy even if it's just dudes your talking to (which we'll call always be interacting).

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    Default Re: Sarging first night solo tonight

    Woud be curious to read more about your experiences. Did you attitudes change and did you see any improvement in your game?


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