met this girl back in 2002 as my car insurance agent,and we both happened to be eastern europeans,same country.immediately she was going crazy for me.i did not care much for her,cuz i didnt see her smart and she is only number 6.i saw her accidently on metal shows few times after that and she was always showing interest,but i was always looking for something better.last time i saw her with friends was in march 2004.meanwhile i went through health and financial crisis,and i was lonely and desperate with no friends and love.
suddenly i saw her at the mall in november 2009.she was happy to see me.this time i showed interest back.it seemed to be perfect match.same nationality,same age,same lifestyle,perfect zodiac match,both kind of outcasts...i took her out to expensive restaurant on dinner.i would never do this with girl i just met.i thought after knowing each other from before it would be simple.at dinner i was confident in control,but also i was asking too much questions and showed way too much interest.i felt chemicals and saw her as special.however her bodylanguage was negative and she didnt let me kiss her after date.second date was in december 2009,we went to movies,but same story.at one point she even told she will have sex with another girl soon or later.after this she broke few scheduled dates,few texts she did not even return.i called her to celebrate new year 2010 with me,but she went to vegas with her friends (the ones she sees every weekend).i stayed alone and broken,just because i could not even imagine this with her.in january 2010 i stopped texting her,cuz i could feel her disinterest.get this.by the end of 2010,i wanted to see her facebook page,but on google her mugshot poped out.she was arrested for theft.lol.who is crazy here?
for some reason she did not want me even as a friend.i texted her with apology if i offended her with something,or if i was boring,i just saw her as special and that was it.she was like "why are you tripping",i texted u many times,then i lost ur number...i kept asking her out few more times,but same story again.always some excuse.
what do you think,where did i screw up? i dont know if i was bad or nice to this girl. also,obviously she is not ok in the head 100% by ending up in jail. i still got her number. i dont want her back,but something makes me curious what happened just because it seemed nothing could stop us. advices and suggestions please!