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  1. #1
    AFCforeveralone is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default new and Need Help and advice on life

    hi ive lurk on here once and awhile, but never posted so il tell you my story and thing about me and any advice or help would be nice

    (pros)
    athletic
    higher than average smart
    good at video games and sport (but dont like to do much sport other than gym.
    good a everything i put my mind to but socialising
    healthy
    good looking
    value my life

    (cons)
    im very shy and timid
    dont talk much
    19 years old never had a girlfriend or sex
    socially arkward
    social anxiety(get anxiety over anything new)
    dont like confrontation
    poor vocabulary and english
    overthinker
    day dream about how good my life could be
    very poor
    dont have a good memory
    dont know how to let go and have fun
    think i might be shallow
    hate myself and others.

    The only thing going for my in my life is studying other than that im doing nothing i stay at home every night wantting to hang at club or with friend and hate myself for not going out at nights.

    i have very little friend groups and even in the my group of friend i dont talk. i only talk when 4 max are around and when i do talk its not much. i dont fit in well with groups.

    i have nothing to give in conversation dont know how to make long convasation even with 2 people dont mind listening to people.
    i even find it hard to talk on facebook and dont use it becasue im scared of being judged by other for multipule reason including(not having a girlfriend or ever having sex, getting ask weired questions, or someone paying me out).
    even though everone uses facebook.

    i try to ask my friend to hang but there always busy. i try to make new ones but because of all of the above find it very hard.

    when i was in my teens i always played video games and my friends wanted to hang but all i wanted to do was playgames online i could of had many girlfriend aswell but was too shy or timid to ask them out even when they came up to me. so i didnt really socialise and my friend online would always pay me out and bring my ego down.
    back in primary school i use to be the life of the party shy but i would take risks and they always payed off.

    ive dont think i have ever had someone care for me in my life other than my mum and my dad but dad left when i was 12. i think i got the shyness from my mother father is also from another country.

    someday i wish to be very good at talking to people and become the life of the party again.

    ive been doing consuling with a therapist and still find it hard, ive havent been happy in a long time and im lost to who i am.
    really need an big ego boost but dont know how to get it

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    bjm3590 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: new and Need Help and advice on life

    hey man I am in the same boat so you are not alone. I only have a few good friends one being a girl that I was in love with but I got friend zoned....... but if you ever wanna talk on here we could help each other out getting to where we want to be

  3. #3
    Skeptikill is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: new and Need Help and advice on life

    Make a plan and deadlines. take it one step at a time.

    First you got to sort your own life out before you can begin to improve.

    Identify your problems etc which you have already done.
    Make a list of what you can do to improve those aspects of your life! And then IMPROVE them as best you can. YOU can do anything you put your mind to.

    If you are enjoying life people and girls are naturally more drawn to you. With every success comes confidence.

    There is plenty of books you can get.

    Be active about improving your life (its a long road but a great one). Create realistic goals and reach them.

    Peace
    skept

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    meteora is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: new and Need Help and advice on life

    hey you seem like you have the potential to be a pretty cool guy if you work towards it, i'm alot like you and am in the same boat. i'm 18 and still live at home with my parents in fairview wv. i love working out and am trying to become more sociable.i am going to fairmont state university this fall and i'm looking for people just like me, wanting to improve their sex life and social circumstances. if you ever need a friend or any advice, you can feel free to message me i'll try to help the best i can

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    meteora is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: new and Need Help and advice on life

    you can add me on facebook too, i won't judge you for being who you are, my real name is scott david cummins,my facebook acount is linked to the email scottcummins89@yahoo .com you shouldn't have trouble finding me on fb,just attach a message saying you are afcforeveralone and i'll accept your friend request,i look forwar to chat with you sometime on fb


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