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    Marvellous045 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default AFC from holland!

    Hee there guys!

    i'm marvellous from holland! no so long ago a broke up with my girlfriend. But now i want to start dating again. A friend gave me the book . the game - neil straus. and it showed me a door to the PUA community and while i was surfing on the web , i came across this forum and i thought to myself "this is my source of knowledge".

    So i was hoping you guys could help me. I think i have a confidence issue , i read in the book about the 3 second eyecontact with a woman. When those 3 seconds are over you need to go make your move. But there is my problem , i can't get myself over that threshold! it's kinda annoying. can anybody give me some tips? Some books with valuable information , or video's.

    Greetz!

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    Default Re: AFC from holland!

    Holland!!

    I consider "The Game" to be a novel, not a PUA studying book. I think you'll gain some confidence if you actually learn the ins and outs of PUA and how it works. Here's a thread to get you started on that.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: AFC from holland!

    Thank you. Yeah , i noticed when i was reading it. But it gave me a little bit of the insight. it maked me eager to go search for the studying books and search for forums.

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    Default Re: AFC from holland!

    The Game is a worldwide best-seller so the same goes for me and most of the other guys on here. For most of us, it's the first PUA book we've read.

    Anyway, these forums contain a lot of free info on varying topics. But books will give you a complete style with methods that work together. There are a lot of different styles, some of which are complete opposites. So I recommend browsing the forums for a while to find out about the different styles and gurus, and then buy one guru's stuff so you'll learn all about that method.

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    Default Re: AFC from holland!

    Oke , thank you. First things first. Confidence , so i think im going to search the forum for topics about self confidence. I think that wil make a lot of things easier if i raise my confidence level and my own body language. i got that issue that i think to much , so i get scared. Even when some signs of female body language tells me that she's interested in me. it's so bad. that i got this girl, i know her pretty long, we have been going to te same school , and talking a lot. But actually trying to date her is for me. But the worst thing is , that's we were on a date this week , even 2 times. it ended up at my place, but i just did't have the balls to kiss her , or even more. And i know that she liked me , why would she date me 2 times if she didn't liked me, and afterwards when i brought her home and she invited me in , i froze. It really make me feel like a AFC. And then i noticed that i got confidence issues. the only thing on my mind was , what if she does't like me or what if i do something wrong.


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