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    Default 18 and need some help improving myself

    Hi, my name is Patrick and i am 18 still in high school never had a girlfriend still a virgin haven't had to many friends either. I desperately want to change but don't know what to do. I am tall 6'5 kinda fat but i am going to the gym and have a diet in place to loose this weight and gain some muscle. I think i am ok looking maybe a 6. I think i have Approach Anxiety since i never talk to girls. Can someone tell me what i have to do to become a sociable person who can pick up women.

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    First off don't think it's gonna happen overnight. U have to push urself and it will be hard but if u stick with it u will succeed.
    Now here's what i want u to do for starters, start talking to people that u never even met if u're more comfortable guys it's ok for the first couple of weeks, nothing fancy just ask for directions on the street, or someone's office in ur school anything and i want u to do this 10 times a day. U need to start getting used to the idea of talkin to strangers to get rid of aa.

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    I think The Newbie Guide will be able to help you getting started.

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    hi patrick, i used to have the same problem when I was young until my friends pushed me (literally ) to speak to a girl then i realized once you have the courage of opening then the res seems easyer, try with any girl you don't know from your school , maybe before youre a grad youre not virgin!
    go on!

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    hi patrick, i used to have the same problem when I was young until my friends pushed me (literally ) to speak to a girl then i realized once you have the courage of opening then therefore seems easyer, try with any girl you don't know from your school , maybe before youre a grad youre not virgin!
    go on!

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    Default how long do i have to wait to answer a girl on messaging and facebook?

    when i chat or message a girl i tend to respond as quikly as posible just because of instinc, when I remember i let some minutes pass and then answer back, which one do you recomend me and why?
    greetings!

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    Quote Originally Posted by Patrick View Post
    Hi, my name is Patrick and i am 18 still in high school never had a girlfriend still a virgin haven't had to many friends either. I desperately want to change but don't know what to do. I am tall 6'5 kinda fat but i am going to the gym and have a diet in place to loose this weight and gain some muscle. I think i am ok looking maybe a 6. I think i have Approach Anxiety since i never talk to girls. Can someone tell me what i have to do to become a sociable person who can pick up women.

    Hey brother! Many of us here have been in your boat. It's not easy... but It appears you've already gotten a head start, and have came here! Glad you came.




    I shall lay it out like this...

    #1 EVERYONE has Approach Anxiety. Although you can help it by socializing more, you can never completely get rid of it. The best MPUA's in the world still get it. You can skip over the Approach Anxiety by following a certain rule of which you will learn about with more PUA education


    #2 6'5 is an awesome hight to be. Being taller DOES help, as Women feel more of an 'Alpha Male Protection' around you.


    #3 Never use the word "diet". I say this because the word "diet" implies that once one has lost a lot of weight, they will stop eating healthy. This only means that the person will return to their original weight eventually. Replace "Diet" with Lifestyle Change. Never stop those good exercise, and eating habits.


    #4 "I think I am ok looking maybe a 6". NO MAN. Cut that out!!! That's AFC stuff! YOUR A 10, nothing else. Every one of us are 10's here. It's the PUA way to think, the Alpha Male way to think. Walk straight with shoulders broad and a smile. You ARE the best. Don't think any other way. Again, smile! Who is more approachable? The guy slouched down with a straight face? Or the man who knows he's awesome, stands his ground without a worry with a smile on his face? Also, here's a fun fact... Guys who smile more, are the ones who get action more often than most. Women are pretty aware of this.


    #5 Following the underlined in "#4", and being that guy.. You'll find people will take to you a lot more. You don't even have to start in your high school to be social. Begin by making habits. Saying "Hey! how's it going!?", "Good Day!" to any random person. Be that guy that initiates conversations with anyone! Since you're new to this, they don't have to be long conversations. Just make social habits. Eventually, it'll seem like nothing to make small conversation. Then you can begin moving up.




    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    I think The Newbie Guide will be able to help you getting started.
    This guide Virgil provided here will be of great help to you, and are far more detailed than what I have posted here. Stay with this, and PUA will change your life forever in the best ways.
    Always feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: Need help with improving myself

    Hi, new too. Good luck! It's great that you're starting at a good age. I'm a bit older and have a bit of learning to do, but better we do this now rather than when we're 85.


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