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    Default Down On My Luck

    I've gotten women before. And I've also had cold streaks the length of six or eight months.

    That's where I am currently. All my friends talk to girls. I don't.

    Tonight one friend asked what girls I've been talking to lately. I laughed, but I really wanted to cry. I felt hopeless. Most guys have more game than me.

    I've read The Game before. I want to be able to walk into any place at any time and pick up girls.

    What's holding me back?

    I'm ugly. Every time I step into a place, girls must cringe. How am I supposed to pick them up?

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    Default Re: Down On My Luck

    Quote Originally Posted by sly View Post
    I've gotten women before. And I've also had cold streaks the length of six or eight months.

    That's where I am currently. All my friends talk to girls. I don't.

    Tonight one friend asked what girls I've been talking to lately. I laughed, but I really wanted to cry. I felt hopeless. Most guys have more game than me.

    I've read The Game before. I want to be able to walk into any place at any time and pick up girls.

    What's holding me back?

    I'm ugly. Every time I step into a place, girls must cringe. How am I supposed to pick them up?
    First off, stop thinking this way. Very few men are ugly. They just don't know how to properly groom,dress and present themselves.

    Start with Google. Look at celebrity males and how they dress, go to the macy's catalog, see how those models dress. Create a look based on those looks. Get yourself a modern haircut. Again use celebritiy males as a reference. There is nothing wrong with this.

    You don't have to look like Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt to wear their fashions and at some point you'll find something you like and can copy it. I guarantee you there are days when Depp and Pitt wake up looking like sh1t, smelling like sh1t and no woman would come within 10 feet of them. It takes effort to look good man.

    Once you have done all that. You take your ass out onto the street and you politely make eye contact and smile at every woman on the street who walks within 3 meters of your position that's roughly 12 feet. It is Spring and warm weather has sprung. So there is no reason not to just go out for a good old fashioned cock walk on a beautiful spring day. Walk tall with your shoulders back, your head up and chest out. Practice this walk and it'll be second nature and you will actually feel better for doing so.

    Go out intentionally seeking to make eye contact and smile. That's all you have to do at first. Do that for a couple weeks, see what responses you get. Do the women cringe and run in fear when you look at them? I bet they don't. Some may even wink at you or give you other indicators of interest.

    Once you've done that a couple weeks and feel more confidet, start saying "hi". That's all. Just "Hi!" as you pass by them and smile. Do not walk with your head down, do not look away first. Catch their eye, hold it until they either look away or smile back at you and say "Hi" as they pass by you.

    Once you've done that.. PM me and I'll set you up with the next exercise.

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    Default Re: Down On My Luck

    Thanks for the advice. I just feel if I do this, girls will think so negatively of me. It makes my heart boil to think of rejection.

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    Default Re: Down On My Luck

    Quote Originally Posted by sly View Post
    Thanks for the advice. I just feel if I do this, girls will think so negatively of me. It makes my heart boil to think of rejection.
    Get over it.

    Trust me, what you are going through now.. feeling like sh1t and ugly is far far worse than the temporary annoyance of an occasional rejection.

    Failure to Act Hurts Worse than Rejection.

    I do this all the time for my friends, I know what I'm talking about. Take it in baby steps. So PM me when you can go out there and properly walk like you gotta pair.

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    Default Re: Down On My Luck

    Get on the internets and get on youtube and find ways to increase your confidence.

    Confidence is like fitness, the more you exercise it the higher the level you will get


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