My name is Christian, and I'm here because I want to learn how to PUA like a pro. I've been trying for the past year to do it, but it's harder than hell to get it down. I posted the post below on another PUA forum, but no one helped me. I came to this forum, to see if anyone could give me some advice.
I know I'm new to the forum, and have no right to be asking questions: but screw it I need some advice, as I just got out of a Sh1t Test war that left me exhausted.
There's this co worker that I finally started talking to about a week ago, and I got good IOIs from, I even slightly Kino'd after she kino'd me first. Yet about a day ago she was completely hard to get to. I had to go to her office in order to coordinate on some stuff regarding a new project, and bam all of a sudden she started the sh1t test with: "you're just here because you want to spend time with me." To which I responded with: "I'm just here to do my job." After this she wasn't cold per-se, but man she was just teasing me the whole time, and being mean lol--man I sound like a bitch.
At one point she asked me if I was single, to which I replied yes. And then she went on to reply: good, no one would stand you. I was getting some effective mirroring from her after this, and more teasing. At this point though, she is not as friendly as she was the first time; so what's the new strategy? This sh1t felt like a farking battle, a battle I will not loose now. I feel almost insulted, and TEASED!!! I AMOGED, a point on which I do have a slight advantage because I'm in a position that projects power in my workplace, but that only goes so far. So any advice guys? Yes she is taken, and yes I am still trying.