High quality blonde here...only thing that drags me down is my love for men. Too many hot guys, too little time, and all that.
And too tricky having to swing them all monogamously even though that's all I really want.
Don't want to impose, just like to learn about relationships from all perspectives and like to also see the male side (as opposed to dummies who only want to see their own side).
Cheers and good luck.