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    I'm currently going to college in Boston. Biggest problem is that I'm emotionally unavailable and I want to experience something real. I'm trying to jump that hurdle of being emotionally unavailable by joining this site. I tend to confuse my problem with weakness and I believe if I can do that, I will have luck.

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    "I'm emotionally unavailable and I want to experience something real??" Please elaborate so the forum can offer advice.

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    sorry. what i meant was that everytime i find a girl who likes me, im immediately unattracted to her. for example, a crush i've had for a while and i finally had sex, but on valentines day, she texts me saying that she's been thinking about me etc. i was so scared to get emotionally attached that i did not respond for a full 24 hours, which probably led her to find someone else. there are numerous examples like this in my life. i find myself emotionally detached from women as i've had several bad examples. i want to learn to engage women while being emotionally available. right now im seeing a girl and whenever she comes over, she wants to hook up and then cuddle. the cuddling part is what bothers me the most. all that mushy love stuff really freaks me out. it's like whenever a girl says she wants me, i always tell myself, now that you got her, you can move on and do better than her, and then i focus on a new target. any advice would be great


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