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    4thgenlude is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I don't get laid unless a girl chases me

    I'm a hot guy (8.5-9 whatever, I'm biased) I Peacock by taking my shirt off. I live a super active life so I stay in good shape. I enjoy life and smile all the time naturally so I get a lot of good attention. Girls notice me, I get complimented and even opened occasionally.

    I've learned to rely on this attention and I just talk to the girls that come up to me. I've never really had to chase girls to get laid, but it sucks waiting around for some chick to make it obvious that she wants to fark. It's been almost 2 months since I hooked up last.

    I can am comfortable around women that I know, and if I'm feeling social I can open strangers that I have a good reason to talk to (waitresses, girls behind the counter, or if in a situation where people normally talk).

    I get laughs and can do basic Kino (quick taps to accentuate things I'm saying). Other than that my game sucks, unless a girls is persistent enough to keep grabbing my attention.

    I just moved to a new city 3 weeks ago to make it easier to give up drinking and smoking weed. So I don't know a whole lot of people, but I live at a hostel so there are constantly new friends around to socialize with. I find myself as the social center of attention at times, but find it incredibly exhausting to socialize with more than 2-3 people at a time, and ideally I like to talk to one person at a time.

    So my game needs definite improvement, I need to learn how to chase girls, and get laid on my terms rather than hers.

    Any ideas on where to start? I'd like to avoid the bar scene for now, because I don't want to start drinking again until I am more socially comfortable without drinking.


    Many thanks my friends,

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    SiliconMagician is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I don't get laid unless a girl chases me

    Quote Originally Posted by 4thgenlude View Post
    I'm a hot guy (8.5-9 whatever, I'm biased) I Peacock by taking my shirt off. I live a super active life so I stay in good shape. I enjoy life and smile all the time naturally so I get a lot of good attention. Girls notice me, I get complimented and even opened occasionally.

    I've learned to rely on this attention and I just talk to the girls that come up to me. I've never really had to chase girls to get laid, but it sucks waiting around for some chick to make it obvious that she wants to fark. It's been almost 2 months since I hooked up last.

    I can am comfortable around women that I know, and if I'm feeling social I can open strangers that I have a good reason to talk to (waitresses, girls behind the counter, or if in a situation where people normally talk).

    I get laughs and can do basic Kino (quick taps to accentuate things I'm saying). Other than that my game sucks, unless a girls is persistent enough to keep grabbing my attention.

    I just moved to a new city 3 weeks ago to make it easier to give up drinking and smoking weed. So I don't know a whole lot of people, but I live at a hostel so there are constantly new friends around to socialize with. I find myself as the social center of attention at times, but find it incredibly exhausting to socialize with more than 2-3 people at a time, and ideally I like to talk to one person at a time.

    So my game needs definite improvement, I need to learn how to chase girls, and get laid on my terms rather than hers.

    Any ideas on where to start? I'd like to avoid the bar scene for now, because I don't want to start drinking again until I am more socially comfortable without drinking.


    Many thanks my friends,
    I've "interviewed" hundreds of women, and I can say without a doubt that most of them rate me a flat 7. I cannot rely on looks at all. I have to compensate for my lack of looks by using fashion, alpha body language, Kino Escalation and ruthless persistance.

    I would suggest reading Tyler Durden's 25 points. That will help tighten up your basics and skyrocket your game, given your advantage in looks:

    The best PUA posts ever: 25 points - Tyler Durden

    For Kino, I put out a great hint here when I first arrived on the forum:

    The importance of Kino Escalation cannot be understated

    This will help you escalate your kino, which when combined with your natural advantages will make you unstoppable for most women. After that it's just approach, approach and approach again until desired results are achieved.

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    Ttownguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Smile Re: I don't get laid unless a girl chases me

    I have the same problem, I am glad there are women chasing me though But I feel like I am missing out on a whole different level of women because I feel satisfied with the attention the 5's and 6's give me, but I am really hoping to get to a point where I am getting a 9 or 10.

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    Default Re: I don't get laid unless a girl chases me

    I think good looking guys need different game products. If you're good looking you can pass by a lot of the stuff that is just intended to build attraction. If you're attractive, you can basically just establish a little bit of comfort, and then sexually escalate. Girls will naturally begin qualifying themselves to you right away if they find you attractive, you just have to sit back and let them. Don't let them know that they can have you though until you're already having sex with them, because as far as they know, you have your pick of any girl, so as long as you act the part and qualify them so they feel like they're winning you (the prize male)

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    4thgenlude is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I don't get laid unless a girl chases me

    thanks SiliconMagician, I'll keep the 25 rules in mind and try to keep coming back to them. I'll gotta get this Kino Escalation thing down, I know I've been slacking in that department.

    Quote Originally Posted by chillout24 View Post
    I think good looking guys need different game products. If you're good looking you can pass by a lot of the stuff that is just intended to build attraction. If you're attractive, you can basically just establish a little bit of comfort, and then sexually escalate. Girls will naturally begin qualifying themselves to you right away if they find you attractive, you just have to sit back and let them. Don't let them know that they can have you though until you're already having sex with them, because as far as they know, you have your pick of any girl, so as long as you act the part and qualify them so they feel like they're winning you (the prize male)
    This definitely makes sense lots of average looking girls get nervous and fidgetty talking to me and I can often tell they try to impress or dress up a bit if they know they see me. I notice that if I show a bit of vulnerability when I first meet a girl she stays interested a lot longer than if I don't.

    I think for the most part I just gotta start taking that risk, Kino escalating and getting the kiss close a lot sooner. Usually I know a girl for about a month before I even kiss them.


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