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    Default New member here looking for advice on life and my relationships

    I'm Ali from Tehran, Iran. I found this site as I was searching through google and then I registered hopping to get some working advice on how to be a better man and how to take control of my life and my relationships.

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    Default Re: New member here

    Welcome. You won't become a better man, just better with women and most of us become happier with ourselves. PUA can teach you how to take control of your life and relationships, though. Good luck!

    Here's a thread to get you started.

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    Default Re: New member here

    Thanks, being happier with myself is indeed great IMO and in women opinions as well

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    Default Re: New member here

    BTW, Why can't I become a better man?

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    You can, but PUA won't teach you that. Let's say you're a police officer and someone tries to bribe you. You can take the money, which makes you a bad man, or don't take it, which makes you a good man. That's very generalised of course, but you get the idea. PUA doesn't teach you any ethics besides not cheating. It won't stop you from hurting people, doing crime or leaving someone in need of help.

    I'm not saying you're good or bad at the moment, because I don't know you at all. But it's an example.

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    You are right in that sense, but What I mostly mean is being (or looking) better in the eyes of the women
    in fact by figuring out and fixing my weak spots and bad behaviors.

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    Default Re: New member here

    Quote Originally Posted by dgmortal View Post
    I'm Ali from Tehran, Iran. I found this site as I was searching through google and then I registered hopping to get some working advice on how to be a better man and how to take control of my life and my relationships.
    Forgive my American ignorance but from what I'm aware Muslim dating practices in the Middle East have very little in common with western style pickup artistry and I don't understand how anything we use could be useful in a patriarchal society where women are covered and treated like chattel basically bought and sold to a man, often involuntarily.

    Not trying to be derogatory or insulting, but facts are facts. Why would a society where your family connections often decide who your mate will be need pickup artistry?

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    I was expecting such a comment for sure, but let me explain a bit, you are right, In Iran we don't have bars, discos and plenty of singles parties like west but there are Parks, shopping malls, streets, universities, cafee shops, work office, meetings and trips which are organized via social networks and lots of more opportunities for pick up artistry. how ever you should note that women are women and there is no difference between Iranian and American women when it comes to what qualities of men Attracts/Repels them. all I have read about women psychology across the Internet holds true for Women I see around myself as well.
    Yes there is a lot less freedom for interaction between male/female in Iran, yes they have to wear scarf, but there is nothing stopping you from picking up a hot girl in a park when she invites you to play badminton with her
    It is quite common for girls in Iran to have boyfriend and in modern cities like Tehran, almost any girl have or experienced having a boyfriend, they are more restrictive about sex before marriage because of our cultural values though, however a great percentage of girls get over it if properly seduced
    There are some things I cannot change, I cannot create more freedom in my country, but I can change myself learn to better attract women. as a lot of my friends have get laid by a lot of girls or have wonderful girlfriends, why shouldn't I?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dgmortal View Post
    I was expecting such a comment for sure, but let me explain a bit, you are right, In Iran we don't have bars, discos and plenty of singles parties like west but there are Parks, shopping malls, streets, universities, cafee shops, work office, meetings and trips which are organized via social networks and lots of more opportunities for pick up artistry. how ever you should note that women are women and there is no difference between Iranian and American women when it comes to what qualities of men Attracts/Repels them. all I have read about women psychology across the Internet holds true for Women I see around myself as well.
    Yes there is a lot less freedom for interaction between male/female in Iran, yes they have to wear scarf, but there is nothing stopping you from picking up a hot girl in a park when she invites you to play badminton with her
    It is quite common for girls in Iran to have boyfriend and in modern cities like Tehran, almost any girl have or experienced having a boyfriend, they are more restrictive about sex before marriage because of our cultural values though, however a great percentage of girls get over it if properly seduced
    There are some things I cannot change, I cannot create more freedom in my country, but I can change myself learn to better attract women. as a lot of my friends have get laid by a lot of girls or have wonderful girlfriends, why shouldn't I?
    Interesting... pre-marital sex in Iran. I never imagined. You have to understand. We have the general idea woman who engages in pre-marital sex will get stoned to death for the act. Acid thrown in the face all kinds of wicked stuff, so forgive any prejudices I may have. Glad to hear from you to clear up my own ignorance. I'm open minded.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dgmortal View Post
    You are right in that sense, but What I mostly mean is being (or looking) better in the eyes of the women
    in fact by figuring out and fixing my weak spots and bad behaviors.
    Yes, practising PUA probably does make you look better in the eyes of women.


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