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    Default Trying to get rid of neediness

    Hello everyone.

    My name is Ozo. rAFC through and through.

    I am new to this forum. Found it, put some stuff to practice, had good results, and am looking to try more stuff in the future.

    Right now my question is this: I can speak to women fine. But after a while, I exhibit huge signs of neediness. Examples, wanting their attention, feeling like I need to keep talking or I'll lose their interest, etc. What are some good ways of not being so needy?

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    Default Re: Trying to get rid of neediness

    Do you have a hobby? Something you can completely immerse yourself into? If not, try to find something that grabs your interest just as much as women (hard, I know.) For example, I love to read and do so everyday. It's actually something that many women have complimented me on, saying it's a dhv--though not in that term lol.

    The most attractive men will always be those who have something they are more passionate about than women.
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    Default Re: Trying to get rid of neediness

    Always try to be working on multiple women. That way you can divide your attention and requirements among them and you will come off as far less needy to each single one of them.

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    Default Re: Trying to get rid of neediness

    Mr. onethousand, I do, just have issues trying not to seem so needy. But I can always spend more time on my hobbies either way.

    Virgil, that's a good way of looking at it. If I'm not obsessing on one but multiple girls, I can maybe not fall in that mind set.

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    Default Re: Trying to get rid of neediness

    I might have the same issue on sign of neediness:

    I had a first date after work today, I had only one hour available. When we departed, I told her that I like her very much.

    Afterward, I wonder if it was a sign of neediness to tell her that? What do you think?


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