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    swag23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to pick up women at the bar/club

    Hey, I am here to learn as much as I possibly can from criticism and advice. I want to learn and eventually master how to pick up women out at the bar or club. I am a very social person and go out with my friends Friday and Saturday. We always get pretty smashed before heading out to the bar or club which cant help my chances of closing. I live in a town full of people in their mid to late twenties and there are always tons of attractive women out. I am becoming better at opening sets (although I need a lot of work and any advise is much appreciated) but I need to work on continuing the conversation and eventually closing after opening. Please let me know any advice. Thank you in advance

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    Default Re: How to pick up women at the bar/club

    I sometimes try move to another location - like suggest you know this great lounge bar you can move on to if it's getting late - it makes you more alpha as your taking a lead to try go somewhere better or appropriate and if they follow you, your chances are good. Even if you suggest moving to another part of the bar. Take a lead in something you do. Sometimes I'll go to bars just to source numbers. Act like you need to head off (you are a busy popular man of course) start a small convo and get a number. Then you don't have to continue intimidating conversations. Get as many numbers as you can and try build rapport with as many women as you can. Do something that makes them remember you. Ask them out later, because you got so many numbers a few are bound to respond. If your with a group try merge into other groups, I've met heaps of girls that way - there is some sort of trust that happens when two groups naturally overlap and mix. So for instance if you see some nice girls in a group on a terrace bar, take your group over next to them. As the night continues generic conversations between the groups (like is this chair being used can we borrow it?' can randomly turn into full introductions between everybody. Zero in on all the girls not just one. Give yourself maximum chances.

    A mate and I back in the day used to warm up in a bar or club by straight away chatting to the hottest. Talking to the hot girl straight away allows her to see how confident you are and you might have a chance with her or other girls will see you two talking together. If you dont have much of a chance with the hottest girl just talk to her like you already know her and use her as bait. You can also try talk to the hottest girl and ask her about her cute friend. Ive done this a few times and the hot girl goes nuts because you are not interested in her but her friend. She is not used to that at all. Say her friend looks interesting or something away from beauty. If your waiting in line for a drink at the bar, smell cute girls hair around you. If they are a HB10 comment on how smokey or beer flavoured their hair is 'wow your hair smells like the bar, how long have you been here?', if she is a HB7or8 compliment her hair and say it smells beautiful. You dont have to be sleazy with it but women spend tons of time on their hair. Comment on it because its right in front of your nose in the que.

    If it's noisy ask them to dance and if you do immediately get close to them otherwise they will stare around the room vaguely rather than into your chest and eyes. Dress nice and have the attitude you are out for a great time no matter what. Talk to girls all day so you are confident in the night. Drinking is ok but not too much. I find I am successful in pubs and clubs when I go in looking to cast out a wide net and talk to as many girls as possible.

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    easyflow is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How to pick up women at the bar/club

    Don't get smashed drunk. If you wanna party on the weekend, stay sober on Friday, then drink on Saturday. Girls are not into guys who are really drunk.


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