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    GunnerStahl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Intro...Starting at Point Guard

    Hello fellow PUA's! My name is GunnerStahl.

    Excited to become apart of the community. I'm a 24 year old entrepreneur, who has had on and off success with women throughout my life. Actually, come to think of it, I would consider myself a "natural" when I was very young. I first kissed a girl at age 11, and had my first sexual experience at 13. A lot of girls liked me, and I had fun flirting with them. But then, for various reasons, as my teen years went on I dealt with pretty low-self esteem, and my success with girls was pretty much non-existent throughout high school. In the six or so years since I graduated, I've been in one LTR, and full-closed 3 girls, while fooling around with a few others.

    My interest in the community is two-fold:

    1) I want to to be able to attract woman. Period. I look at this as a lifelong pursuit. I want to be able to effectively attract and seduce women of beauty.

    2) I want to eventually get into more meaningful relationships with women. But for the next few years, mainly I am just interested in having fun with women.

    I have read "The Game" and "Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss, and "The Pickup Artist" by Mystery. I feel there is a lot of great information by both authors, while a lot of it I don't feel is very practical or useful to me. Either way I suggest reading all three books.

    I am not interested in memorizing "lines" or "routines", but rather learning general concepts, theories, and terminology in the game. I feel as though while my social skills are a work in progress, I have developed enough to the point that I can converse with both men and women with confidence.

    With that said, I look forward to beginning this journey, and wish nothing but success to all of you in this noble pursuit!

    "No no no, danger's my...middle name." -Austin Powers

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Intro...Starting at Point Guard

    Quote Originally Posted by GunnerStahl View Post
    Hello fellow PUA's! My name is GunnerStahl.
    Actually, come to think of it, I would consider myself a "natural" when I was very young. I first kissed a girl at age 11, and had my first sexual experience at 13. A lot of girls liked me, and I had fun flirting with them. But then, for various reasons, as my teen years went on I dealt with pretty low-self esteem, and my success with girls was pretty much non-existent throughout high school. In the six or so years since I graduated, I've been in one LTR, and full-closed 3 girls, while fooling around with a few others. I have developed enough to the point that I can converse with both men and women with confidence.
    Hi Gunner, welcome aboard. You raised an interesting thing regarding being a 'natural' when you were younger. I joined a new office several years ago and at lunch a few of the older single ladies in the office were complaining about not being able to meet men. I asked them if they had lots of boyfriends when they were young and they said yes. I asked them what they used to wear out and what they would do. 'Oh we used to wear short pink mini skirts and boob tubes out back in the eighties, wear glossy makeup and do way out hair cuts...we'd go clubbing and dancing'. My next question was 'how do you dress now and what do you do?'. 'Oh well...um...I guess we just go out after work and have a few drinks, maybe out to dinner'. So I simply suggested they needed to put on some mini's again, get some thigh high boots, do makeovers and go dancing. They were quite excited at all of this and it was a revelation for them. They were re-living their youth. Their 'natural' way had been covered in the rust of work and lifes pressures but was actually quite easy to clean off and re-shine. They were smiling and happy from a 2 minute conversation. They were girls again playing rather than ladies working. Play the game. The emphasis should be on play and not game.

    When I was younger I was super confident naturally, taking on the world and taking opportunities by the horns when they arised. I was confident because I always 'played' and was happy. I am a much better lover now but I dont do the crazy stuff I did when I was younger. But sometimes now in my 'working' life I think back and contemplate 'what did I do when I was 16? 18? 25?' It brings that natural 'play' Mindset back. When I was 13 I would ask as many girls out as possible at the school dance...why don't I do that now??

    I then had a LTR in my early 20's. Thought we were going to marry, the whole thing. But I eventually got cold feet, I was young and not 100% sure she would really be suitable. Gorgeous intelligent girl but she kinda held me back and often made me feel guilty about a bunch of things. It took me 2 years to get over that relationship even though I broke it off. She killed my happiness and prevented me from playing and being myself. A friend told me it usually takes half the time you've been dating a girl to truly get over her. I lost a lot of confidence from that even though it was the right decision and coupled with not instantly meeting someone better than her I even went through a stage of being a little jaded towards women. I came across unhappy and everything was thus unhappy. Then my friend said 'its snakes and ladders mate...you sometimes have to start back at the beginning...sometime s you need to kiss the frog before you get the princess'. That weekend I went and hooked up with a pretty but chubby girl at a party. Normally I wouldn't have been interested but I kissed the frog. It worked absolute wonders on my confidence and so I started just talking to all women, and lots of men too. I had been focussing on trying to seek out the perfect girl rather radiating happiness and fun everywhere I went and attracting people to me. Average girls led me back up to good girls, which led me to great girls. Meeting men got me invited to a wider net of socializing and their circle of girlfriends. Copying alpha males made me an alpha male. I was called shy when I was younger despite my confidence. I am often called a motormouth now - can sell sand to the arabs and ice to the eskimos. See how long my posts are? Im rattling out words like Eddie Van Halen finger taps notes. And he attracts arenas of people doesn't he...well except when he was an unhappy alcoholic

    Its not all just about picking up girls but goes back to 'how to make friends and influence people'. How can I have a better relationship once I have it? How can I break off better? How can I make people around me happy. How can I become a better person and create a better world.

    People want to be around other happy people. Women especially. People are 'natural' when they are happy...like when companies are doing well financially, everyone's a visionary, playful, creative and happy, when your on the winning team, everyones a hero, take chances and is happy. To this day the one thing that all women have said they liked about me the most is my smile

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    Thanks whitedragon! Some great insights!


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