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    Sirron44 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default confused because second date was a flake

    I got flaked on by a girl it was for a second date , she gave the excuse she couldnt get a sitter so i sent her a message saying thats strike 2 now lol you are going to have to do a lot to make it up to me . she replied back quickly with ok you are now boring me :/. what does this mean is she s**t testing me

    cheers andy

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    Default Re: confused .com

    just ignore and text again like it never happend. However, flaking isn't tolerated.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sirron44 View Post
    I got flaked on by a girl it was for a second date , she gave the excuse she couldnt get a sitter so i sent her a message saying thats strike 2 now lol you are going to have to do a lot to make it up to me . she replied back quickly with ok you are now boring me :/. what does this mean is she s**t testing me

    cheers andy

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    Default Re: confused because second date was a flake

    I gave her the boot but today the other girl I have been seeing send me this text dont hate me...you know whats coming..im going to have to take a rain check on tonight..sorry it late notice ..ive not been feeling good all day and have just started being very poorly so sorry xx...

    what would you do we are supposed to meet in about 4 hours

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    Default Re: confused because second date was a flake

    Quote Originally Posted by Sirron44 View Post
    I gave her the boot but today the other girl I have been seeing send me this text dont hate me...you know whats coming..im going to have to take a rain check on tonight..sorry it late notice ..ive not been feeling good all day and have just started being very poorly so sorry xx...

    what would you do we are supposed to meet in about 4 hours

    Cheers
    Send her a message 'get well soon ' and never text again. If she's truly sick but interested she will write back. She at least said don't hate me and so sorry.

    One advice, if your tuning a single mum, don't ever neg them when it involves kids, babsitters, being too tired to come out etc. They will not like anything that adds pressure to her full on task of being mum. If your really serious about someone like that and really have balls you say 'why don't I come around with some Takeaway and we can both baby sit.' You take weight off a mothers shoulders and she will be far more likely to develop attraction or reward you.

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    Default Re: confused because second date was a flake

    good answer , so do you think its genuine then, I mean on the first date we had a totall make out session and she is a single mum

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    Default Re: confused because second date was a flake

    I can't answer that question but generally I only accept 3 excuses for flaking: unavoidable family commitments including being a parent, genuine work commitments including study and personal health issues like being sick, accident, pmt. There may be exceptions to that rule like if you have only just met someone or have not met in person yet. Or natural disasters obviously. So both your dates so far fall into those categories. If they do it consistently you have a problem (even if it's genuine).

    One needs to take calculated risks. The keyword is calculated. Sometimes a risk is counter intuitive but works, sometimes it's about thinking out a logical, adaptable and creative strategy that deals with your unique situation. Be observant. Calculate who you are trying to score with. The way into the pants of a single mum is probably not going to be through adding pressure, scolding or giving them additional work to make up for it. They will not tolerate it. However single mothers are full of vulnerabilities and opportunities that can be exploited, even if it means being slightly AFC or helping take a load off her back.


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