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    goodguy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really sure..

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    So I was raised in a JW (Jehovah Witness) family that was pretty strict about the idea of sex before marriage. The thought was for me to find a lady within the religion get married have kids and so on. Even though I'm not active within the religion I still attempted to hold on to those belief (meaning until yesterday I voluntarily held onto my V card). But it seems as if the saying "good guys finish last" has some truth to it. Every girl Ive persued has ended leaving me for some asshole and Im kinda chilling their like "word" haha. So I get this new roommate turned best friend who bug the shit of me to read this booked called the game. A lot of stuff he would talk about makes sense now haha (like are next place being project Denver haha). So Im kinda interested in the I idea of being PUA but I also tend to be pretty shy when dealing with stranger, especially women. Im really hoping to find some help to boost my confindent and open the doors to the ladies. Any input would be awesome!

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    Default Re: Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really su

    Welcome and if you are truly interested, then you are in for a long and difficult, but rewarding journey. If you haven't read The Game all the way through it is a good warmup. The next thing I would suggest is anything on Mystery Method which breaks alot of techniques into a science. A man named Juggler is really good and being able to get into womens minds and Vin Dicarlo is great with overall woman philosophy. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really su

    You can be incredibly nice, as romantic as you want so long as you have utter confidence in what you are doing. I can say all sorts of nice and nasty things to a girl. They are notes on a scale - it's the music you make with it that counts.

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    Default Re: Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really su

    Thanks BatMan! I'll diffenately read up on those.
    Yea I prefer to come off more romantic than pushing I guess.
    So being all new to this, so I'm understanding at having a pre rehersed game plan that your supposed to naturally and confidently (eve though around strangers I come off as shy) spit to your target. But if you don't domit she will pick up on that which will cause her to find you unattractive? So how do you get over that overwhelming feeling which would only cause the anxiety to be worse? Like my pretty chill approaching women (tho if they are with a bunch of dudes or a large group I get pretty intimidated) but then I start to freak about how the course of events will go after the approach so I get really quiet. Any advice on how to deal with this?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really su

    The biggest thing is get OUT of your head and INTO someone else's. Try not to analyze your game in the moment. That is what you do later when your reflecting on your night. This is why it's great to have a mentor since he will see things you won't. But while you're in the moment just stay out of your head. Some guys carry a little cheat list if they're first starting out. On this cheat list I wouldn't just write openers. You should also write quick little quotes to tell yourself like "Women want me so bad" or "I am such a smooth talker." It doesn't even matter if you think these things are true. The point is that your body language will convey your Mindset so you have to create this little bubble of reality for yourself, even if it is a bit drastic to think EVERY woman wants you. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Grew up thinking the good guy right was the right one but not really su

    Thanks for the advice buddy. Will for sure keep that in mind


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